Hey there :)

I’m a 33m chubby sub looking for a relationship and gentle femdom dynamic. I’m open to an FLR. Online at first is great but I’d want to move to IRL at some point. I would hope you’d be within 3 hours of me.

I have been on a weight loss journey this year. I have lost about 86 pounds and will be continuing. I had to get back surgery in early November and it was successful but I’m still recovering. I want to get that information out quickly so if I’m not your type, I won’t waste your time.

I’m not interested in sending pictures right away. I’d like to see if we vibe first. I wanna make sure we communicate and have the same goals. As I’m looking for a relationship, I am dating with intention of getting married. I’m not trying to rush into that but I want us to both have that goal in common. Communication is the biggest part of any relationship even more so in kink relationships.

SFW information- I recently started learning leather crafting. Currently learning out to bind a book. I’ve been into wood turning and woodworking in general for years now but admittedly still amateur. I love hiking and walking around thrift and antique stores. I’m avid reader and have been known to dabble in writing smutty stories. I have my life together for the most part, the weight loss is the last thing I’m getting under control.

My love languages are physical touch and acts of service. I love giving lots of affirmations and lovey dovey texts/messages.

NSFW information- I’m fairly new to the femdom life. Things I’ve had the pleasure of experiencing/enjoying are edging, chastity, orgasm control, body worship (foot and breast), ruined orgasms. I’m interested in pegging, degradation, and impact play.

Humblebrag incoming, I’ve had excellent reviews on the use of my hands. I can find your clit with my fingers or my tongue.

Hard limits- findom, cucking, sending pictures immediately, starting off in dynamic right off the bat, polyamory.

What I’m looking for in you- -Drives (medical reasons for not driving accepted) -Within 8 years of my age. -Open minded and willing to experiment. -Want to travel. -Has hobbies. -Gentle but strict. Don’t be mean just to be mean. -Experience in the lifestyle not necessary.

Please do me a solid, please flick the bean before messaging me. I don’t want you to have clouded judgement then ghost me after coming down from that “high”.

Well if you made it this far, send me a message. If you decide not to pursue me, at least have a wonderful day :)