Are you looking for a genuine long term monogamous relationship and connection built on trust, communication and unconditional affection while receiving praise and head pats for being turned into a mindless, drooling, whimpering, cunnilingus loving, fuck toy 🥰? 

Hello there, handsome! **If you are reading this I am still looking!**

I’m Kai, 32, currently living in central Florida, African American, 1.63 m/ 5’ 4” tall, and a bit plus sized. I have slightly broad shoulders and a rather large bust. My face is on the rounder side, high cheekbones and I've been told I have nice eyes (brown) and a nice smile. Don’t let the username fool you, I’m not a findomme. It’s simply a reference to one of my tattoos.

A pic of what you'll be worshipping ;)

I am NOT looking for an online only session, poly relationship or a play partner. I prefer monogamous in person long term relationships so, married or taken men please go elsewhere. If you are only looking to get off there are plenty of lovely ladies here who can help you with that. 

You must be local or absolutely willing to travel at your own expense. I won't write you off if you aren't near FL or even in the US but If we can only see each other for a day or two every six months or so it will not work out. I am flexible on traveling as well as long as I am not the only one putting in the effort. 

I'm very independent and do not need to be waited on hand and foot but physical touch, good communication and quality time are extremely important to me in a relationship. 

Do not reach out If you do not have the availability to commit effort to a relationship and dynamic at this time. I understand that everyone has a life, things happen, we all get busy and that includes several ups and downs and I'm an extremely patient person but going weeks on end without contact makes for a poor connection.

What I'm looking for

I am currently looking for a broad shouldered masculine good boy, golden retriever, himbo type (not interested in femboys or feminization of any kind) who is looking for gentle femdom. 

Any level of experience is acceptable. I have a little experience myself but I’ve had enough disappointing encounters to know what I want, what I enjoy, what I have to offer and what my value is. 

My age preference is 27-42 (I only have these limitations because I’ve noticed that I have less in common with those outside of these age ranges), I would prefer that you were taller than me, ideally 1.73 m/ 5' 8" or taller. No need to be super fit or hairless, just well groomed, comfortable in your own skin and care about your health. I do lean more towards men with larger builds because I have a broader build myself.

If you're a little nerdy that's always a plus, it'll give us plenty to talk about. If that's not your thing that's also okay as long as you don't judge me for what I enjoy. If you like cozy nights on the couch, star gazing, romantic weekend getaways, relaxing walks and just enjoying the company of someone you care about then we'll probably get along beautifully. 

I always appreciate someone with a sense of humor but also knows when to turn it off when others are going through a tough time and are in need of comfort. I'm rather introverted and sometimes need to decompress in solitude and silence. If you're the extremely clingy type and are co-dependent, we might not be a good match. If you're on the shy side that's okay. I love an easily flustered man.

My ideal dynamic in the relationship would be to keep our business in the bedroom. I do not want a 24/7 situation or a live in slave and unfortunately high demand FLR is a little too much for me. 

A little about myself

Politically I'm very left leaning, I would prefer that my partner is as well. Everyone deserves the right to be who they truly feel they are without prejudice. 

I do not drink alcohol, smoke or participate in any recreational drugs. I do not mind those that drink responsibility and/or socially but smoking and drugs are deal breakers. So, no I am not 420 friendly.

I work third shift, full time and relatively long hours. 

When I'm not working I'm typically indulging in a random hobby. I get bored easily and tend to jump from one thing to another after a while. They are typically art related. Doodling, practicing 3d models, some sewing or amateur prop work for when I get the itch to attempt a new cosplay. If I want to unwind I'll turn on a long youtube video, a favorite anime or play a few video games. 

I’m a little bit of a nerd. I really enjoy anime (favs being Yu Yu Hakusho, Ghost in the Shell, Mob Psycho 100, FullMetal Alchemist, Paranoia Agent, Samurai Champloo, and MANY more), Marvel, documentaries, horror movies and a wide spectrum of shows (currently obsessed with Arcane, The Boys, Invincible, Always Sunny, Better Call Saul, Archer, The Last of Us, etc. ). 

I try to venture out to conventions and ren faires when i have a chance. 

Though I don’t get to do it often, I do enjoy traveling, sometimes domestically but mostly internationally. I consider myself a “boring traveler” lol I always seek out gardens, art museums, and cool architecture. 

I LOVE music, it keeps me sane! My taste differs depending on my mood. Something chill for rainy days. Epic or cinematic for creative moods. Something more upbeat if I’m in the mood for cardio.

I'm quite nurturing and want to create a relaxing, safe and judgment free space for my partner. I have a lot of love to give and ultimately want to find the right person to share that with and shower with praise, compliments and positive affirmations. The vanilla connection is just as important to me and I know that takes time. I don't want anything to feel forced or rushed.

Kinks

My main kinks are body worship (receiving), oral worship (receiving), leashing and collaring, free use, bondage, edging, teasing, denial and post orgasm torture. Not a kink per say but I do enjoy PIV, while I'm not exclusively searching for hung men an average size, at the least, is preferred. I enjoy giving pleasure, and as long as you enjoy having pussy for every meal of the day you will be rewarded graciously. I have every intention of using you like a fuck toy and human dildo whose only purpose is to suck my clit and fill my pussy on demand.

My soft limit is anal play. I'm not keen on pegging but if we vibe really well and it's a kink you have I'm sure we can find some common ground.

My hard limits are chastity/cages, sph, cbt, cuckolds, humiliation, heavy degrading, public play, extreme pain, anything illegal, age play, ANY type of feminization/sissification, scat, urine, vomit and blood.

This was a tad longer than i expected 😅 but if this has piqued your interest feel free to message me. Please introduce yourself in a proper fashion. 

Start the first line of your message with a 💜 (silly I know but it will really helps set you apart from the scammers and bots.)
-Name/Nickname
-Age
-Location
-Tell me a bit about yourself (hobbies/interest, what you're looking for, anything you feel is important to share). We don't have to jump into anything intimate right away since the vanilla connection in a relationship is just as important to me but feel free to share your kinks for mutual and compatibility purposes.
-I don't mind receiving (and sending) photos as mutual attraction is obviously important but keep it tasteful. I like a slutty boy but we can get more into that once we get to know each other better 😉.

If/when we decide to move off of reddit I have Discord

I'm a busy woman, I do not like having my time wasted. If you can not put effort into an introduction I will not respond to you.