Hi there! I’m…well let’s save that for the chat but you should know that I’m passionate about creating a better and more just world—something that’s deeply tied to my identity. I recently discovered I’m autistic, which has helped me make sense of so much about myself and my relentless drive for equality. Career-wise, I’ve achieved balance: I reached the top of my field and realized I didn’t want to stay there. Now, I’m an executive but not the executive, which feels perfect. Outside of work, I’m a voracious reader with a 4-book rotation: one on self-care or trauma processing, two fantasy books (because, obviously), and one liberationist theory work. I finish all four in about a month, then start again. Audiobooks are also my guilty pleasure, and I love sharing my favorite finds (occasionally assigning “required reading” with pop quizzes—but trust me, the rewards are worth it). Nature is my sanctuary. I’m an outdoorsy person who loves being outside in all weather, whether under a blanket with a fire going or working on my dream of one day stewarding my own land. Fitness is also a daily priority for me, as much for my mind as my body, and I’d love a partner who shares that energy. I am also still very much a curvaceous, locced, black woman who loves her body and her heritage so someone who appreciates both is a must. Recently, I’ve fully embraced my nerd side: I’m deep into Baldur’s Gate 3 and letting my dork flag fly with hobbies like D&D, musical theater (hello, Wicked TikToks), and am a socio political nerd. I’m also a hobby hopper—learning bass, exploring herbalism, cooking, and screenwriting are a few current favorites. I’ve been exploring kink and the BDSM community for the last eight years, meeting amazing people and gaining clarity about what I want in a partner. And, just to round things out, I’m an environmental and social activist who’s constantly working to change the world for the better. What I’m Looking For I’m looking for someone who feels like the right combination of friend, lover, and dynamic match. My dominance isn’t tied to an on/off switch; it’s part of who I am, and I want to connect with someone whose submission feels similarly natural—a part of them they want to explore and express. I believe dynamics are about much more than sex. While I have the libido of a rabid dog, I’m just as passionate about the service aspect of d/s dynamics—domestic and otherwise—and all the other wonderful things that make bdsm so much fun and want a partner who finds joy in ensuring my needs are met as I work to meet the world’s. I value submission that is rooted in confidence and pride at being able to serve, and I want to co-create a dynamic that brings us both joy and fulfillment. My style balances gentle FemDom and sadistic play, and I enjoy activities like domestic discipline, goal-oriented punishments and rewards, impact play, pegging, bondage, orgasm control, and the dirtiest of all: aftercare. I’m not into humiliation and prefer to build up my submissives rather than tear them down. And frankly, every dynamic is different and I consider myself an incredibly creative Domme (pride myself on it as a matter of fact!) and if the sub fits, I love finding new, fun and creative ways to play within a subs boundaries. (For example I’ve played with many newer subs who are unsure or have hard boundaries around impact play and that’s actually how I found out how much I love overstimulation and orgasm control! Ah the beauty of kink so much to discover.) In terms of compatibility, I’ve been exploring D/s dynamics long enough to know what works for me, and I’m looking for someone who also has clarity about their desires and boundaries. I’d love to meet a submissive who is passionate about service, enjoys the journey and reward of building the perfect dynamic with their domme and takes pride in their role. How to Reach Out If you think we’d be a good match, show me your reading comprehension by starting your message with “Hi, Miss.” Include: 1. Something that brings you peace. 2. Something you’re working on about yourself. 3. Why you think we’d be a great match. And your previous experience serving a domme. Feel free to share anything else you think will endear me to your cause as well as any photos you’re comfortable with (though an uncreative dick pic won’t help your case). End your message with a thoughtful question for me. We’ll see where things go from there! I’m pansexual, so submissives and switches of all gender identities are welcome. My preferred age range is 25–35, though I might make exceptions for the right person. I’m not looking for an extended online-only dynamic, but I do travel regularly across the U.S., especially the East Coast. If you’re within a few hours of Philadelphia, let’s talk!

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