A warm hello to everyone reading this! I'm still very new to the kink universe and am very excited about how this advert shapes up.
About Me:-
I'm 23M, around 5'10, and have a decent physical build. I'm from India and work in consulting. I studied literature and management at college, and love reading and getting to know new people. I'm very opinionated and reasonably well-read. In another life, I'd possibly have pursued a career in academia. I got into Femdom a few years back, and it absolutely fascinates me as a concept/fantasy, as well as a lifestyle.
I'm not very experienced though, both femdom-wise and sexually. I've done a fair amount of research/thinking around the subject though, and am not a creep looking for a kink-dispenser to ghost the moment I feel even remotely vulnerable. I'm not that person, and am here to build a genuine relationship. I'm new but not completely unfamiliar to the theme. A Femdom dynamic is something that I take very seriously and would value with all my heart. I really think that F/d relationships need to be a lot more mainstream, especially coming from a conservative society like India.
Some of my kinks are tease/denial, edging, chastity play, impact play, humiliation, psychological manipulation, micromanagement, behavioural conditioning, watersports, etc.
My notable limits would be scat, blood, permanent marks and the like.
My Ideal Dynamic:-
I like to think of a F/d relationship as a mutual bond of trust between equals before anything else. I am a sub, but I want to be heard and respected. I believe that for me to really give myself to my domme, we both need to feel a real emotional connection, and be compatible as human beings before we can get to the power exchange part. To me a Femdom dynamic should represent a beautiful compact of control and compassion. A mix of authority and admiration. We must both be invested in the lives of each other and work at being better versions of ourselves. It's really the psychological aspects of femdom that appeal to me. Of course, the physicality of it is important, but I'm looking for someone to gradually take ownership of my mind and persona. I acknowledge that in a F/d relationship, the needs and interests of the domme will always come first, and am committed to always upholding that fundamental principle.
My Ideal Domme:-
I'm looking for a strong-willed, independent woman, who's not afraid to get what she wants, and is looking to explore and challenge her dominant self. I want to submit and serve a commanding woman who values her submissive, and will gradually fashion her ideal submissive out of me. My dream domme would be kind, and gentle, but equally fierce and demanding of me. Someone who will guide me into becoming a better person and submissive for her, but will also not hesitate to put me in my place. I really don't have a body type or age bracket in mind. I only know that I'm looking for a sophisticated domme who knows her stuff, and is kind at heart. Everything else really is flexible.
If you think we'd be compatible please send me a DM/ message. Looking forward to your responses and hoping to meet a wonderful domme who'll know just how to press my buttons!
Note: Not into findom, and not willing to show face until a 'significant' degree of trust is established.
Thanks for reading, and have a great day.
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