I'm hoping I don't get spammed too much but dating apps and regular Reddit meet pages are failing me.

What I'm looking for: Looking for a real sub for dating / possibly LTR if the connection is there. Masculine fit/athletic and dad bods ok as long as you are health focussed (I'd like someone to be active with, especially for dates). I'm not obsessed with height, I'm 175cm so around that or taller is good (short boys with great personalities and no height hang ups are also appreciated).

As this is for FLR and goes beyond kinks (but I'll address those below), I would suit someone who is submissive by nature, quiet or introverted, service sub, with Thier own interests/hobbies and preferably not a gamer. Age range is late 20s to 35.

Ideally one day I would like a house husband who either focusses on his hobbies/interests (or part time wfh) and keeps the house in order while I work, or failing that someone who is also a professional doing what they love, and we hire help.

Me: As per the title, I am F 39, curvy/thicc, community minded professional, my interests are: learning/researching, art, gardening, swimming and simple living. I'm caring, thoughtful and generous.

Being a domme is probably my number 1 hobby and I prioritise spending time enjoying this, so seeking someone who can do the same.

Non- kink wise id like to have cute dates doing outdoor activities, walks, swimming, camping etc.

I really like to read so someone who has interests or can help me be undisturbed to focus is best.

Kinks: I'm a gentle mummydom type. But recently had an interest in something a bit more severe. Not necessarily as a punishment but as a release for me. I don't like desperate begging subs, I prefer surprised appreciative subs, obedience over brattiness.

Serving my needs at all times is number 1. Pegging or play that leads to it is number 2. Cuck play and forced cheating (not forced bi) is something I'd like to try one day.

All other kinks can be discussed.

Hard limits are pain, scat, etc.

Location: east coast Brisbane to Melbourne ideal as long as you are willing to relocate down the track.

Please only respond if you can verify within a reasonable timeframe, happy to use Snapchat or similar.

Responses should state how you fit the criteria, your interests, location and age plz. Thx