Hello all! Quick disclaimer, I’m here in search of a long-term relationship in person. Online only doesn’t spark feeling for me, sorry.

Quick physical description of me; 6’1” Caucasian dude clocking in at 170 lbs. Here’s a quick peak at me: https://imgur.com/a/SXfibuf I’m on track with my dream career and I’m satisfied with my job, plus I just got into part time grad school to keep moving forward. I have awful no good rotten eyesight which keeps spectacles firmly attached to my face at all times. After a little under a year of learning new cooking techniques and sticking to a diet I managed to hit my goal weight at 172( /-2 day to day) pounds. Now that my big cut is done I’m beginning a lifting routine in pursuit of the illusive toned physique of my dreams. If you have exercise or weight training tips I’d love to hear them!

In all honesty I’m still drifting from hobby to hobby in search of the one that I really want to commit to. I’ve done a mix of rock/fossil collecting, home brewing, magic the gathering, thrifting, reading fiction/fanfiction, cooking, video games, learning about historic architecture, and reading on macroeconomics. Cooking is my most consistent hobby since, ya know, I need to eat and every new meal is an opportunity to practice something different. The most recent of my listed hobbies is learning about architecture and interior design. At the moment my favorite style is either Georgian or late Gothic Revival. It’s a current dream of mine to build a gothic re-revival cottage on a few acres with my wife one day. Quick aside, I have a love/hate relationship with regard to keeping up with politics- it stresses me out to see what looks like brain dead policies, but it stresses me out more to not know what’s coming. I’m liberal and rather opinionated on that front. I get along best with people that also pay attention to politics and have something to say about it, but I’m not the sort of person that enjoys attending protests or rallies.

On what I’m looking for: Something fun and comfortable above all else! I prioritize being a good boyfriend over being a good sub. If you message me, please share your favorite food with me if you've read this far. I’d love to find someone that’s happy to share a quiet evening at home with me. I believe quiet moments serve as a nice litmus test for how well couples get along.

I'll keep my kinks to my big three to avoid the dreaded extra-long comma separated list, but we can talk more about mutual interests in conversation. My big three are denial, nipple play, and service. I enjoy chastity cages as a component of denial, but at the end of the day the king of denial is trust and commitment. To me nipple play is a two-way street, I love to play and be played with! Service is kind of like a fuzzy kink/habit because I enjoy domestic things like making your favorite foods or delivering unexpected baked goods, but I also love taking instruction. On limits: I will not engage in public, illegal, scat, vomit, blood, permanent marks, blackmail, sounding, pee, and overt public play. I will not send risqué pictures without some level of trust built up first since I’ve plastered my face on the ad already and don’t feel comfortable with adding in more compromising information in a hurry. I certainly don’t expect you to turn on the compromising picture printing press either.

On you: 23 to 28-year-old woman with a love for cute dates, an interest in domination, and someone communicative about her favorite flavors. You like to share pop culture references and the occasional SpongeBob meme. Ideally you have a career and ambition to match and you live within a three-hour drive of the RVa area. You have an idea of your own kinks and none of your must-haves are on my limit list.

Please shoot me a message with a little about you if I piqued your interest.

Thanks for reading and have a wonderful day!