32/m/UK 6'3" Conventionally handsome, average body. I live in the UK but I am open to discussions with somebody from anywhere.

I've had this account for a while, it's pretty one-dimensional but I think the age of the account shows I'm at least a little bit consistent.

What am I looking for? My life has been very vanilla up until relatively recently, and I've been satisfied by that. I had an interaction with a trans woman which left my with a new understanding of myself. I experimented with the vectors that I was aware of over time, and I would say that at this stage I probably enjoy feminisation to an extent, but only a limited one.

Anyway, to answer the question, I am looking for a Domme to talk to and to get to know. The truth is that I need to know somebody before I feel comfortable, but I'd like to understand what it might be like to have a consistent online D/s dynamic. I've read about this online, and I would like to explore to see if there is a possibility of taking it further with the right person.

What do I like? I like the idea of doing what I'm told. Of being used, and of being useful to somebody. I like assplay, within the constraints of my IBS. Based on what I have managed to do on my own, I can say that I like mild pain and humiliation, and I want to see how to take it further in service of another person. I like denial, I like edging. I like the idea of experimenting and performing tasks in order to satisfy somebody whom I both like, and trust.

My previous experience is limited to one night with a trans woman who I have never met again.

My hard limits would be scat, intense pain, large insertions, findom, blackmailing.

The toys I have are three plugs of different sizes, and anal beads.

Who am I outside of my sexual preferences? I live in the ass end of nowhere in England, where I spend my free time running, hiking, weightlifting, trying to read (really, really read - with a pen in my hand!) philosophy books (my favourite has always been Leviathan by Thomas Hobbes - go figure), and gardening.

If it matters, I make more money than 96% of the population of the UK. I have letters before and after my name. More than 100 people have to do what I tell them at work. I do not really want to discuss any of those things, at least not for a long time.

Who should you be? I like to think I am open-minded and I'm happy to talk to you if you want to talk to me. Although I understand that this goes against common preference, but it would be a bonus if you can make me feel as if you are much smarter than I am.

If you've managed to make it this far, then thank you for taking the time to read my message. What I'd like to know is who is your favourite poem is? Mine is the Rubaiyat of Omar Khayyam.