Hello!

39M recently back into the scene after taking a break for a few months to work on myself. I’m interesting finding a domme or dominant couple for a limited power exchange. I say “limited” due to 2 main factors:

1. I’m married with kids. My wife is hardcore vanilla (believe me, I’ve tried several times to get her to dominate me, and she knows I’d welcome it), but we have been pretty much celibate for the last few years. I know that’s a hard stop for some people, and I understand. If you’d like, we can discuss it further. But I put this out there so you are aware and don’t waste your time. Additionally, this also means I have to be discreet about my activities, as well as sharing my limited time with my family responsibilities.

2. I work full-time. I work in an office environment with access to my phone, but little privacy. My job and livelihood to provide for my family is more important to me than any sort of fulfillment that I would receive from a dynamic. So I wouldn’t be doing anything that would directly jeopardize that.

As for myself, I’m still relatively new to BDSM, as I started subbing about 9 months ago. I have had some short-term, non-romantic dynamics that went fairly well and ended amicably by mutual agreement. Mostly I see myself as a service-sub and a pleasure-bottom… something that is a challenge to pursue solely online. Mostly I just like to help do what I can to make other people happy. While I enjoy a number of kinks, my main avenue of fulfillment is pleasing other people, and often times just knowing that my efforts were appreciated is enough for me. I’m not the sort to say that I’ve “earned” something from my Dom - I much prefer any “reward” be a gift freely given out of pride in my performance or gratitude for my efforts, rather than feeling obligated to recompense me.

I also am very obedient, am willing to push myself, and enjoy having rules and expectations to adhere to. Furthermore, I also enjoy having my mind played with, and would allow myself to be molded and reshaped mentally and (within limits) physically.

Note: While I consider myself hetero and have always sought female domination, in a kink dynamic, I have found myself becoming more open to the idea of being dominated by a male/female or female/female couple. The configuration could be a number of things: shared co-dominants, a primary dominant and a secondary dominant, a D/s couple with limited interaction with the subordinate partner (co-submissive)… this is new for me and I’m open to ideas, but it is something that I am now at the point where I am willing to open my horizons and try.

While there are a number of likes and dislikes, I have compiled a list of know limits. At this time, the hard limits are exactly that: hard. The soft limits we can discuss, but would be the sort of thing that we would have to work up to once trust is well-established.

If any of this sounds of interest to you, feel free to message me, and I’ll be happy to talk with you!

Statistics: 39/M/CUST Skin: White Hair: Brown, kept short with a trimmed beard that is starting to gray Eyes: Gray Height: 5’ 8” Build: Overweight and large framed Endowment: Undersized (4” when erect)

SOFT LIMITS: Urine / Watersports Bladder Control / Bowel Control Diapers Large / Rough Anal Rimming Moderate CBT Hair Removal Wax (Candle) Forced Porn (watching non-preference material) Sounding / Urethral Insertion Choking / Breathplay

HARD LIMITS: Prohibited Bodily Fluids: Blood, Scat, Vomit Permanent Body Damage, Scarring, Marking, Piercing, or Modification Any activities with minors Needles, Blades, Flame/Heat, Caustic chemicals Public or Online Exhibition Blasphemy or Religious play Financial Domination (Findom) or any other financial exchange Heavy CBT Blackmail / Extortion Caging/Jail Furry/animal/pet-play Beastiality Ass to Mouth activities Smoking/Drugs (Self and anyone involved during play)