About Me:

Here's the basics about me.

I am a 30 year old cisgender woman currently living in Southern Canada. I have beautiful blue eyes, white skin, and am on the thicker side, though I am attempting to lose some weight. I will never be super skinny, but being healthier would be very nice. I might be up for sharing pictures but only once you pass a vibe check.

For my career, I have immersed myself in artful joys. Previously I would make handmade goods such as sewing plushies by hand, but when that became too time consuming, I also expanded my business to enamel pin production. While this career path is successful for me, I do want to stress I will never be rich and I am not willing to return to the actual workforce.

Related to my art, I have numerous successful Kickstarter campaigns under my belt. I have an etsy shop that makes strong sales. And I go to many conventions and events a year to sell my goods in person, something I'd love for you to join me with if you are close enough to do so.

Beyond art, I also taught myself how to code and recently launched a virtual pet browser game (think neopets). This is growing a strong community and we hope to fund more merchandise this year.

Besides the stuff mentioned above, I love really nerdy things such as western animation, enamel pin trading, conventions of any type (furry/comic con/anime), making friendship bracelets, hanging with friends, writing fanfiction, and probably more I can't think of. I also enjoy cozy gaming and short board games - my attention span can be a bit short at times. I do have interest in LARP and ren faires, though I've never been to any.

About You:

I am currently looking for a cisgender male between the ages of 27-35ish. While I am willing to budge a bit on age, please don't message me if you are under 25. That kind of power dynamic just isn't right to me.

I would really love someone as nerdy as I am. Someone who wants to share in the things I love even if they don't always understand. And I'm willing to give that same passion in return. I love also love chubby guys and guys who where glasses. I just think they're cute.

If you are just looking for a hookup, please don't bother messaging me. I am looking for the love of my life. Someone to share my time with and dedicate all my love to while getting the same in return. While I can be very work orientated, I am always willing to schedule time in for my loved ones when asked.

I understand finding the perfect person and building a solid relationship will take time to build but I am always spammed with non serious messages and dick pics, something that I find extremely disrespectful.

Boundary Warnings:

To not waste your time, I will be stating my boundaries here.

1. I am not looking to have children ever. I am sorry.
2. I will not make out with you ever. This really icks me out and turns me off. It's something I just made a boundary with years ago and my dating life has been much healthier since.
3. I am not interested in the following kinks: scat, pain, bodily damage, oxygen play, sounding, vomit, feet, major bondage, diapers
4. I am nervous about but willing to explore: chastity cages, body worship

Kinks:

Above all, I am a gentle dom that wants to praise my submissive. Because I do not enjoy bodily harm, it is almost impossible to "punish" a bratty submissive and it just isn't fun for me. I want a submissive that is looking to make my day better and one that I can shower with praise and rewards in return.

Like all women, I love massages. Though even above that, I love any kind of weirdness that gives my body attention. This includes tarot card reading, reiki, palm reading, back scratching, drawing on my back, etc. While I don't believe in the powers of these and wouldn't pay for them, I would melt under anything like this.

When it comes to any major relationship steps, major first flirtings, and sexual initiation, I much prefer to take the lead. This means that if you are inexperienced, that's fine with me. It also takes a lot of the guess work away from you because if there's something I want / need, I will just ask for it.

In fact, I'm kind of turned on by virgins/inexperience. This obviously is not a requirement, but I definitely do love teaching a new dog new tricks. I find these types are just more willing to learn what I like and less stuck on the things their past partners liked.

If you require an actual kink list, I will list it here but keep in mind you don't need to be into all of them and I'm willing to explore things outside of this:

• Pegging (Never done but interested)
• Minor Piss Play (Desperation, Watching)
• Acts of Service & Acts of Love
• Innocence & Virginity
• Teasing & Accidental Boners
• Mommy / Baby Boy Dynamic (Only Once I Say its Okay)
• Internal Cumshots & Breeding (But no babies!!)
• Packing (Wearing a cock for non sexual purposes)
• Probably More I Can't Remember

If Intersted:

Send a detailed message about yourself. I've put a large amount of detail about myself here, so I expect a good amount in return. That way I can get a good idea about you, your career, your ideals, your hobbies, etc. I get sent dozens to hundreds of messages so describin yourself can really help you stand out.

Including a picture can definitely help your chances if I find you attracted.

Also if you are into hazbin hotel, warrior cats, are a furry, or going to conventions, these are my current interests and it could be a good bonding point if mentioned. <3