Dear Mistresses,

I am a 41 year old dominant leaning switch seeking to make a connection with a domme for bottom training, forced orgasms, mild CBT, bondage, watersports. Drain me of every last drop of cum. Wash, rinse, repeat. There's more I'd like to experience,but that can be discussed later. I am quite experienced in BDSM and the kink/fetish world. I have always been dominant, but in recent years have been getting tired of always being incharge and in control. I fantasize about being on the other end and want to take the steps to make my fantasy reality, afterall you only live once. I have a huge anal fetish, the more extreme the better. Now, I'd like to start to experience some of what I am accustom to doing - anal training and size training as I have had some limited experience in my past that really did it for me and want to go further down that rabbit hole (pun intended 😁). I have a plethora of other kinks and fetishes as well, too numerous to list here. Ideally I'd like to meet up with someone who is gentle and caring but can turn up the volume and become an aggressive domme in the heat of the moment. Ideally, you would have other slaves or subs to assist you and eventually use me as breeding stock for them. Im even open to greener dommes who are looking for experience as my experience would allow me to guide and coach them, though I would preferably go for someone with experience first due to the risks involved and for myself to completely be able to submit. Age, ethnicity, size doesn't overly matter, though if you're MtF I would prefer someone possible but it's not a make it or break it deal as I wish to be blindfolded and gagged while you work your magic on me. I'm a bit on the ADHD side and I do require a lot of sensory input. Physical, audio and visual combined is usually enough so a verbal domme who isn't afraid to use all of herself and her tools of the trade would likely be best.

I am married in an open non-monogomus relationship so myself hosting is not possible. I do have my own reliable transportation and am open to meet with dommes from across the province. I am not looking to be feminized and I will not shave my beard. I am 6'6 bearded and inked former soldier. Dad bod. 7", cut, very high stamina. Pictures will be made available to those whom I feel a good connection with and who syncs up with what I'm looking for. I look forward to hearing from you in the near future. I'd be open to meeting up first - go for a coffee or some drinks as an ice breaker to see how well we get along or we could get right down to business. I am 420 friendly and enjoy my whiskey and rum (sativa and a strong rum do help get me in the mood). I am not looking for a findom. Only sexual. I've scoured the web trying to find someone and being here on the Island is very hard. Fetlife is just a bunch of creepy guys and dommes promoting their onlyfans it seems. Hard limits include: - scat - vomit - blood play - knife play - cock sucking - being filmed or having my photo taken (due to having a highly public facing job). - bestiality

EDIT: if this is still up, I'm still looking.