Hi everyone!

While I feel like a lot of people in these r4r subreddits have a very specific person in mind I am looking for something a bit different and I hope it resonates with some of you.

While I did recently discover that I love being a sub sometimes, I feel like after a while I still love turning it around and taking up the dominant role. So I'm truly a switch that is looking for someone else that also enjoys both sides of the Dom/sub dynamic. I think this will be great to help us both push each other and explore new things on each side. I have a fairly technical job so I use this as a fun creative outlet. I love creative writing and consider myself a fantastic detail oriented erotic writer.

I'm an overall kinky guy, that is open to discovering new things and leaning more and more about these communities. I am 6'3" tall with a slim but fit build. I play a lot of different sports which keeps me pretty fit. I believe fully in getting to know each other and trusting each other before diving into the kink aspect. Without good trust and communication a switch dynamic wouldn't work.

As far as my kinks I love orgasm control, denial, teasing, edging/JOI, voyeurism, exhibitionism, and tasks/rewards.

Outside of kink I love the outdoors and I am always experimenting in the kitchen. I'm a huge music nerd and try and see as many live shows as possible throughout the year. Happy to share music recommendations or talk about our favorite concerts. I think we should enjoy our conversation outside of our kink dynamic. That aspect is also very important to me.

I'm looking mainly for females or I am also open to trans females. I do believe physical attraction play a role in a dynamic like this.

I really hope I can get some fun replies from other people that feel like they don't fit fully in one camp or the other. Looking forward to chatting!