Hi there! A little about me as I'm 32, white male, shirt hair and glasses. I'm slightly chubby, some would call it thick and that seems appropriate. More cushion and all that haha

So I'm writing this from work which is always slow. My days are kind of in and out and I really want to change that!

I've known about the world of BDSM for a while and have been exploring various femdom related topics over the years and even though I'm very nervous I am writing this to try and find someone for me!

I know that I'm not into the leather clad whips and chains as depicted. I don't think I'd look good in leather frankly but that's besides the point :p

I would really like to find someone who doesn't just go around saying things like "be my slave" and whatnot because that will make me recoil so hard.

I want to find someone who knows about femdom and is also a good human being. Someone who is able to balance the fun with the boring, engage in small talk, and hopefully form a dynamic or training situation for me!

Things like "training" really hit a chord with me I don't know why and this is all stuff I want to explore and experience!

I am familiar with chastity devices but I've never worn one myself. I think they are pretty neat but there is a lot I don't know. Especially outside of the devices themselves. I absolutely romanticize the idea of being a chaste male/sub/boyfriend. I don't know exactly why, but it really just makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside.

I am single. I have never been married. I don't have any kids. I don't even really have any debt. I'm just kind of me. I moved a lot growing up, never really fit in or made lifelong friends. I have a few buddies from work but no real "best friends" or anything.

I like doing things for people that they normally would overlook. Or might not think about wanting or needing. I am an excellent gift giver, and a good listener! I would like to think I am a good partner in vanilla relationships, I have been in a few but have never approached BDSM discussions.

Ummmmm.

I mean I have a lot to say but I'm not really sure what you want to hear versus what's just me rambling on.

I do see posts on reddit, and I know a lot of you who want to try femdom are scared of either getting a brat, being ghosted, or just being manipulated. I am very aware of what's going on in the world and in certain communities.

I really think I want to be in maybe a FLR. I am aware of what TPE is and it's not really anything I guess I'm SCARED of?.. I mean my life hasn't really gone well when I'm in charge lol.

In any case. If you found any of this amusing, you have general questions, or you just want to see a picture - send me a message! I don't have any specific age range or type in mind as long as you are polite we can talk until we fall asleep!