Who am I?

At a staggering 172mm/5'8" height I tower over most kid slides and my lean frame allows an escape from most prison bars (to my previous owners dismay). I got grey eyes and white colored hair. My clothing style and general appearance could be described as alternative (goth/emo). Dressing extravagant and different is normal for me, some call it the "Berlin" look. I'm conventionally attractive both when I present myself masculine or while cross-dressing (recently unlocked that feature).

Here's a taste of one of my outfits

Currently in university and concerning my private life and hobbies, I love to acquire and learn new useful skills that increases the level of comfort for people close to me. Sports wise, is badminton my choice to go aside from home workouts. I love to play video-/board games whenever I have "me time" or join draft rounds in my local Magic The Gathering meetups. So yes I'm a nerd, especially for everything that's (high) fantasy or gathers my attention (that might/ but is not exclusive to, you).

My personality is cheerful and sarcastic. I rarely get frustrated and rather see it as a challenge to resolve and grow from. Two years ago I first discovered that I would rather be the supportive person that makes the life of my owner more joyful and easy than to hold the reins myself. Thus my search for a FLR since that fits me more than just kink in the bedroom. Just because I'm a sub doesn't mean I will just agree to anything. Rather, a person has to earn that respect from me. Only once I think you fitting enough to be reliable to control and maneuver our ship will I wholeheartedly submit to you !

What I want

Closeness, a real/genuine connection and sense of belonging. I want to get to know you, what makes you smile, make you curious, discover each other, being stupid and silly together, see you vulnerable (we're all just humans) and look in your eyes and think "yep, that's the one". So in general, the REAL you! I cannot stress enough how important this is for me.

My ideal relationship constellation is an FLR but that takes work on both sides. I have a lot of freedom to do what I want in my day to day and that's also the reason my ego seems to build up a bit too much. Maybe that's why I would like someone that restraints me and brings me back down to earth.

My Ideal Domme

Most are optional:

• age 20-40 y.o
• confident, straight forward and honest
• emotionally intelligent
• can take care of herself
• sadistic leaning
• close to me / similar time zone (GMT 2)
• not obese (sry, just isn't for me)

What am I into ?

🖤My favorites include:

• seeing her get off, in any way she likes (I would just like to be there :P)
• bondage
• pain
• femdom, nothing is more attractive than a headstrong woman that knows what she wants
• impact play
• anal, I'm bi, so there is enough room for a show ;)
• orgasm control/chastity
• CEI, dislike the taste but it's such a turn on
• tease and denial, few things makes me whimper more
• power play/training
• body worship
• role play

❌Limits:

• scat
• findom
• permanent damage/scars
• blackmail

This is not an exhaustive list! I have more kinks but that should be enough for now to get you an idea about what I'm into. I really like to give up power in a lot of ways so chances are there is something on that list missing for you and I'm open for suggestions :)

🤝🏻What can i offer you?

• understanding that I should take care of a lot/most of the house cleaning
• my input/ opinions (if required)
• good technical/web knowledge (you don't have to buy online media or see ads ever again)
• can cook up a nice meal without being specifically asked to (and learn new ones)
• always try my best around you
• cute whimpering/easily blush when embarrassed
• massages, these hands can work 😤!
• be trained/hear on commands
• cares and thinks about you and how to make your day to day easier

And a lot more! You see, it's pretty convenient that the other person knows what it takes to make your life as pleasant as possible because he realizes the direction she dictates is to the benefit of both. But why listen to my opinion when you can just find out for yourself.

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In the end, I'm just a subby guy that would love to be in a loving FLR with someone dominant. I strongly prefer something long-term and locally but don't mind it being online for the time being. A big thank you for everyone who was willing to read until now, and I hope you liked this ad. If my (not so little) post caught your interest don't be shy to leave a (respectful) message :) After we establish some trust I would be open to sending pics/audios. If you want to keep it online only then I require you to verify, that's a non negotiable. Oh, I also mostly don't use social media and due to scamming attempts I won"t switch over from reddit so quickly. Kik&snap I will never install but telegram or discord would be fitting after a while but lets see until then ~

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Have a nice day and lets see where it takes us! 🖤