Hello everybody reading this! First off I appreciate that you take your time and look at my post as it cost me a lot of courage to write this out.

While I am not a socially awkward person, usually really outgoing, meeting up with friends for hobbies and such, I am sadly not really in communities that make it easy for me to just meet a dashing girl irl that will steal my heart and make me hers. Ontop of that I get easily flustered and shy about being submissive and that is a reason why I havent been really active in scenes like this.

Most of my past experiences online came from stupid me being on websites where I only met women that wanted money for their service and while I understand that and dont shame it, I want to find somebody to build a real connection and have something personal. Also like that I can use my money to spend on gifts x

So what am I really trying to say? All in all I am looking for a woman around my age and older, lets say 21 to 35 years to talk to and build a relationship based on our kinks, hobbies and in general likes.

I dont want to just be owned or have it all kink but the connection and just conversations in between is what makes me happy and loyal to a person.

A little more about me: I am around 5'6 to 5'7 and weigh 70kg with a rather normal body, neither muscular nor chubby. I am fairly good looking from what I think atleast and very open to char about lots of topics. I am a very nerdy person and enjoy card games and to talk about various topics, discussing all kinds of stuff to open up my mind for all the things out there.

As for my kinks:

Mostly soft stuff like cuddling and praises makes me melt but I am also into bondage, toy uses, orgasm control, edging and such things. I love to express my devotion and loyalty to a person and sometimes also like to be made look girly

Limits:

As I am very shy about myself I dont like things like openly public humiliation besides that the extreme things like toilet play I guess

What I wish from my partner:

Im looking for a supportive woman that likes to talk lots and deep and just is able to take control, be soft with me but also show me how to behave for her. I really want to find someone that I can make happy and that enjoys my company as joyful person aswell as playing with my body and using me to feel good themselves. I wont ever ask or expect any kind of gift or money from my partner. Personally I dont like the idead of being with someone for a financial benefit, I just want a connection and maybe give you little gifts of appreciation.

What I hope will happen if we click:

This really depends on if you are from a place close to me and want to meet up or if its a purely online thing. If we are close together I would appreciate meetings to get to know each other irl too but it is not necessary. I dont want to try and force a meeting as that doesnt seem genuine. But at the same time I dont expect you to nor do I want myself to travel hundreds or thousands of miles for a meeting if it isnt for like a super special reason.

If we do connect and it turns in some kind of relationship I wish for mental availability. I want us both to be able to rant about our day to the other and support each other. I am also looking for a connection beside a domme/sub relationship, irl banter and just talking lots to take the mind off of of the stress of the ordinary day to day life.

As for the kink part of a potential relationship:

What I am looking for is to give up control about things like my pleasure, having you control it and my orgasms and all that. You could also pick from what I am wearing and such. Also it would be appreciated (but isnt at all necessary) to make me do chores by giving me punishments for not doing them (or maybe even rewards for accomplishing at task but also not necessary). I also want to be able to worship you and just all in all show my appreciation for you. I would also be open to do tasks for you and just obey your orders to make you happy about my service to you.

If this catches someones attention feel free to message me and ask me whatever, I am very outgoing and easy to talk to and will ensure quick responses and messages that arent dry. I will also send selfies if you want to see me :3