Hello, my name is Caleb, I am a single white male looking to find my dominant life partner (F/TF/NB). Given I am serious about this I am patient enough to wait for the ideal person. So if this is up then I am still looking. There are pictures on my profile so you can go there to look at them if you are curious. I do have preference for closer to me as I want this to be IRL, but will make distance work for the right person as I am amenable to relocating in the future.

About me, I am 5'7", currently 160lbs, and most everything else about me appearance wise can be gleaned from my pictures. Though if the beard is the only dealbreaker with my looks, don't worry it is more attached to me than I am to it. I am generally nerdy and introverted and prefer simple cozy nights in over going out. That said I do still like to go out from time to time and like to make the most of any given outing when I do so. This can be anything from having nice dinner somewhere to spur of the moment deciding to hike up a mountain. I am the type of person who values honesty, good communication, and directness. My ideal partner would share with me in my vanilla interests and hopefully bring a few of their own for me to learn about. Getting along as people and partners is just as important as matching in kink. My primary love languages are Physical touch and Quality time, and my name literally means loyal so I have that going for me.

When it comes to kink I am open to a number of dynamics from extreme cases such as 24/7 tpe or house husband to completely normal relationships with some kinky roleplay behind closed doors. I am very adaptable as the pleasure for me comes mostly from pleasing my partner and as long as I have a good connection with them I can do most any arrangement.

My vanilla interests include Painting, writing/reading, gaming (of all varieties to include tabletop), videography, video/audio editing, hiking, travel, film, music (learned piano years ago and in the process of picking a new instrument to learn), theater, and I have an interest in getting into some form of gardening (currently leaning towards orchids, bonsai, and any type of flowering plant). I also have interest in just about everything nerdy/artsy and anything adjacent to the above list.

Kinks:

Anything not listed here is likely still on the table as an interest since I have a wide range of kinks. This list mostly just covers the most important ones.

Must have: Oral (like giving and receiving so if either is off the table it won't work.), body worship, and tease/denial.

Love: Chastity play, crossdressing/feminization, humiliation, roleplay.

Hard limits: Scat, blood, Diaper, age play, and anything that leave long lasting or permanent marks.

When it comes to what I am looking for I don't have many requirements. Be over 24 since any younger is too young for me. I can go as young as 21 for an ideal match but realistically 24 is the lower limit. I have no preference regarding height, weight, race, or anything else like that. Just be serious in what you want and be able to hold conversation. Beyond that it is all connection and chemistry.