(Just realized the formatting is screwed up 🤦‍♂️. Posting on mobile is hard. I will fix it tomorrow 🙃)

Hi :)

You can call me J, for now.

I've been writing this out for a few days now, and I keep going back and forth on everything I want to add. I want it to be succinct, but also to give you a thorough overview of who I am, and what I'm looking for. There are many details I chose to exlude, as to not end up with a jumbled mess. However, if you feel like you wish to know more about me, I would love to go over all the different things I've written :)

About me/Interests -I will be 28 in January -White as can be -Quite introverted -I love music. I play multiple instruments to varying degrees. I sing (badly) -Music in itself is an extremely important thing to me. It's an escapeI can appreciate most types of music. I generally gravitate towards rock/metal genres (I know, so specific), but i also like a decent amount of pop, some rap, and way too many others lol. Generally, I can find the beauty in most music, but I gravitate towards music by very skilled musicians and at least moderatly complex music. If you want a snapshot of what ive been listening to lately, check out: A. Tootsie Roll- By Gold Necklace (R&B/Funk/Prog-Rock) B. You're So Dead Meat- By Anthony Green (Acoustic somewhat sadboy music from one of the most beautiful men in the world with an amazing voice) C. Mute- By Native Construct (Prog-Metal with a touch of (I feel anyway) Disney vibes 😂. Literally one of the best Prog-Metal albums ever made. They made it, put it out, and and never made another album. I'm still salty about it -_-) D. Rabies- By Aesop Rock (Extremely good rap, from an extremely smart man. One of the few rap artists I have such a high amount of respect for. You can spend days dissecting a single song of his, and still not be sure exactly what the meaning is, in a good way lol) E. Symptom Of Life- By Willow ("You mean the whip your hair back and forth girl?" Yes, the whip your hair back and forth girl. Prog-Pop. This song has such beautiful melodies, some of the jazziest chords in pop you've ever heard, and the vocal runs of an angel. I hope she keeps doing this style of music, I didn't know how much I needed it in my life. Ill leave it at that, I could give 50 examples and it would only scratch the surface. If you read this and are totally disinterested in me (which is fair) and think I'm a total dweeb (which I am) please give these artists a listen. If you're anything like me you will not be dissappinted at all. (Read: please, lets just go driving around, see some beautiful sites, and let me nerd out to a whole slew of different music 😂) -Drawing. Although I'm sure my 4 year old nephew draws better than me :) -Cooking. I have quite a bit of Asian relatives through marriage, so I've had lots of practice cooking Asian dishes. -I love nature. Camping and hiking are two of my favorite things to do, though I don't get to do them very often. -I much prefer mountains to the beach. I've only climbed one mountain so far, and I can NOT wait to do it again. I'll actually add my favorite picture I took on that trip at the end :) -Video games -Movies. I have so many, I could literally watch a different movie everyday for over 4 years and still not see them all 😂. Will only watch scary movies if I have someone to hide behind though, because I'm a big scaredy cat 😭 -Animals>people -I've recently been enthralled with urban exploration videos. I loovvee old abandoned buildings (but dont ever ask me me to go to one, again, scaredy cat 😭) -Tech enthusiast (old tech is best tech) -1 tattoo, I plan on getting more when I feel there's something worth putting on my body forever. Not looking to do whole sleeves or anything though. -Big water enjoyer -Beanie connoisseur -Drama-free, but like, actually drama free. I don't play weird games, start random fights, or any of that B.S. Ain't nobdy got time for that.

Physically, about 5'10, 160lbs-ish. It fluctuates pretty frequently. I go through stints of eating one meal a day, for weeks/months at a time. Blue/green eyes Eyelashes that go for daayyss Wavy when short/curly when long hair And if you ever get to know me you'll know I'm not big on talking myself up, or lying to make myself look good. I'm usually my own worst critic, and I tell myself way worse things than anyone else can. With that being said, I do have kind of a pretty face lol. For now at least 😅(Damn you, time!). Decent jawline, high cheekbones. Solid 7/10 I think. (But I know you'll be the judge of that 💀)

As far as what I'm looking for, I'm looking for a FL femdom LTR (hopefully forever, but y'know). I have next to no experience being a sub, although I do have quite a bit of experience being a dom. Throughout the past few years though, I've been feeling more and more that I wish I was on the other end. I know the lack of experience may be off putting to some, but I hope you can see it as an opportunity to mold me into YOUR sub :).

Outside of femdom in particular, I'm looking for a partner. Someone to spend my life with, through the ups and downs. To help eachother succeed in every aspect. Someone to learn and grow not just with, but also from. I want someone I can be truly and completely honest with. Someone I don't have to, or want to, hide anything from. And in a sense, I'm looking for my "superior". Someone I can look up to, and someone I feel deserves the right to have a large amount of control over me. Additionally, I crave to be someones source of joy again. I want to make my partner feels as good about themself as I feel about them. I want to explore everything my partner has ever wanted, and more.

I'm definitely looking for something in person, though I have no problem starting online if there's a good chance of it becoming in person.

As far as the kind of person I'm looking for, I don't have too many requirements. I do want someone with decent intelligence (IQ and EQ. I'd say I'm above average on both. IQ, I've got the paperwork to support it. EQ, because, god dang, too many people are just wacko). Also, while it's not the MOST important thing, physical attraction is absolutely needed. But as long as you've got a decent face and aren't obese, it shouldn't be a problem.

As far as femdom/kinks go, I'm not 100% set on many particular aspects. There are kinks that I would enjoy exploring, but I'm open to just about anything (as long as it doesnt do any lasting damage 😂). (Unless cuddling is a kink, then that one's an absolute must :P) To start, I'm more interested in finding someone I click with and to let the kink side grow from there.

With that being said, my small list of hard-no's are blood, scat, hardcore degradation, knife and needle play, and findom. Possibly more, but that's all the comes to mind.

Also, here are my results from bdsmtest.org if you find it helpful: 87% Submissive 69% Rope bunny 63% Little 61% Vanilla 61% Experimentalist 59% Brat 58% Degradee 58% Masochist 56% Pet 54% Owner 54% Switch 53% Voyeur
47% Rigger 46% Daddy/Mommy 45% Primal (Prey) 44% Slave 42% Master/Mistress 42% Sadist 42% Ageplayer 39% Non-monogamist 39% Primal (Hunter) 33% Degrader 32% Dominant 28% Brat tamer 24% Exhibitionist

I wouldn't say it's 100% accurate, but close enough for you to get the picture.

There are so many things I'm leaving out, I tried to give a detailed description without being too verbose. This post could easily be 3 times as long, but I imagine it wouldn’t help anything. If there is anything else you wish to know, please send me a message!

And just incase any of it's needed: Not a creep. Not a gooner. Ive had my fair share of relationships. I absolutely understand boundaries. I know what is acceptable, and what completely crosses the line. And I try my best to stay away from that line entirely. I'm much more scared of you than you should be of me :P. I also have a 12 year old Reddit account that I'd be more than happy to give you the name of to get a better idea of me, as soon as I confirm I don't know you :P

If you made it to the end, thank you for at least taking the time. It may not seem like much, but I I've been thouroughly stressed about making this right. For me, and my hopeful future partner. Now, it's late, I need be up in 5 hours 🤦‍♂️. I hope you all have a wonderful night. And I hope we can all find what were looking for 🥰

And my favorite picture from my trip :) https://imgur.com/gallery/tXxdcga9