Hi! I have been interested in femdom for a long long time but I haven't got any actual experience with it. I would like to change that but I am the type of person who needs to get to know someone a bit before getting sexy with them. I'd love to chat and get to know each other a bit then explore some kinks. I am very open to what this would look like, and am happy to just start of online, irl or the possibility to meet irl in the future would be better though. I am open to short term or long term as long as the communication is good. The ideal goal would be to have a long term kinky romantic relationship but there is no pressure for that, as long as communication is good I'm happy for any sort of dynamic, online or irl.

About me:

I’m 5’8, dark hair, pale skin, blueish/greenish eyes, skinny athletic. I exercise, get outside a lot and eat healthy. I know physical attraction is very important and can share pics once we’ve chatted a bit. I love fashion and am currently expanding my wardrobe, I don't have a particular or distinct style, but I am getting more into vintage stuff atm :)

I love going out to pubs, restaurants, book shops, cafes, traveling to new places, hiking but also love staying in and just watching movies. I love books, non fiction and getting obsessed with something and reading all about it. I'm currently really into f1 and listening to Adrian Neweys how to build a car audiobook. I also love a good novel. I'm currently reading Glasshouses but not too into it at the moment, I'm hoping it picks up though!

I also love films! I have a film studies degree and love all sorts of cinema, blockbusters to art house and everything in between. Also made a few short films, music videos and writen a few screenplays.

I have a wide taste in music from country, jazz, blues, rock, metal, pop. I love going to gigs too, especailly love live jazz and rock and metal gigs.

I've also been learning Spanish for the past year and a half and I am planning to travel Latin America in the next few years hopefully. Would be great to have someone to go with.

I also love cooking and trying new foods!

About you:

I'm not looking for any particular type of domme or specific kink. I am mainly looking for someone I could have a genuinly good connection with, who is also kinky and feels empowered playing the more dominant role. What that would look like exactly or what kinks it would entail totally depend on the person and the dynamic that involves.

That said this is not an exhaustive list and none of these are musts but some of my favourite kinks are chastity, orgasm control/denial, feet, worship, lingerie, service, cuckold, and not really a kink but creativity! I would love someone creative who loves to come up with games or punishments or rules or fantasies. This obviously goes both ways and I would love to surprise my domme with kinky things or ideas that I know they like!

For example, it would be great if I had to give you an orgasm for each of the people you have had sex with before me, in honour of them, and only after you've had an orgasm for each and every one of them would I be allowed an orgasm in whatever way you want depending on how cruel or nice you are feeling. Or I draw a detailed picture of your feet and if it's good enough you let me kiss them. Or I help take/edit your photos for your social media and am not allowed to cum until a certain amount of likes/follows are reached. Just some ideas! Also of course I would love to do lots of non kinky ones aswell like getting you the new book from that author you like and running you a bath after a stressful day etc.