About Me

Hello, person who is reading this! Please note that even if you do not meet all preferences, that I am still willing to talk. I will not immediately reject any one person unless something really irks me, which is hopefully unlikely.

I am a 20 year old amab, masculine-presenting individual residing in Michigan, looking for an afab, feminine presenting domme or mommy. I have black, shoulder length hair that tends to be poofy if I don't tie it back into a ponytail. I'm about 5'11'' with a bit of a heavier build at around 225lbs. I also wear glasses, as I am horrendously near-sighted.

I really don't like talking about my personality so as to not come off as self-centered, but here goes anyway!
I am very curious and industrious, with a strong sense of justice and equality (BDSM not withstanding, what with power exchange and somesuch).

Regarding location, in-person is fine if you're local to Michigan or the midwest, and online is fine if you're further. If you live outside of the US, I may be willing to move in the future if the opportunity presents itself, depending on the country.

A lot of my interests either involve tech, or academics to some degree, but not all of them.

• I play a lot of video games. RPGs, shooters, platformers, fighters, you name it. My favorite game series of all time is Xenoblade Chronicles.
• I love reading a good novel, and I read a lot of amateur writing.
• I enjoy working with computer hardware, and have built a PC of my own.
• I am a massive linguistics nerd. I intend to get a degree in linguistics, ideally to become a teacher. I have also created a constructed language using my knowledge on the topic.
• I enjoy writing and have a novel in progress, about 40k words as of right now.
• I watch all sorts of anime, western cartoons, etc. I have too many favorites to choose from with anime, but with western cartoons, Gravity Falls reigns supreme.
• I love all kinds of music. I have broad taste, and I generally tend to like or at least tolerate most things. Except country lol.

As for employment info, it's complicated. My current housing situation is temporary, and once I get a job here in the next few weeks to a month and begin saving money, I intend to move come next spring or fall. I was originally attending Oakland University, but due to a few family emergencies that compounded together, I was forced to drop out to assist my family. These issues have now been largely resolved, so I can safely continue in a similar direction to before.

Oh, and for the record, I can drive, and I do own a car.

Also also I will provide photos upon request :)

What I'm Looking for in a Domme

I'm not terribly picky about a potential domme, or at least I hope I'm not.

Regarding physical traits, generally I'd prefer a slimmer build, but a bit of chub is A-okay. Height is irrelevant to me, someone taller than me would be great, but it is by no means a deal breaker. Weight is in a similar place as height, but I don't want to throw out a weight range based on my build preferences for fear of casting too narrow of a net, or being inaccurate.

As for personality, I like people who are kind-natured, honest, nurturing, etc. I especially find assertiveness very attractive, since I tend to not be very assertive unless the situation is dire or serious. I will defend the people I hold dear if the situation calls for it though.

I'm inexperienced with BDSM, and have never done anything in-person, or online regarding it. I can say what I am confident that I'd like, and I do have limits. I know for certain that I am entirely submissive.

Kinks

My for sure likes are as follows: Gentle domination, MD/lb, orgasm control, teasing, nursing (idk it sounds hot), cuddling (idk if this fits but I really need a hug lol), OH I also really love like... ASMR. I will melt if you whisper into my ear.

I might be alright with light pain, but it remains to be seen.

My for sure dislikes are as follows: Pain, scat, piss, blood, race play, incest play, There are probably others that I can't think of in the moment, but I'm more than willing to discuss them.