Hello lovely people of Reddit,

I'm Beau, 29 and a tall & athletic guy with long surfer hair from Central London (imagine a Hozier/Matt Smith lovechild), trying to build a mature long term relationship with a person who shares some of my interests. I decided to write this now as I have found it challenging to develop the right dynamic through friends/apps/parties, so thought it worth putting some of my desires for certain chemistry up front & centre here - without it just becoming an 'im horny' ad. (Although I know the internet is a dangerous place!)

The SFW bits: Im doing pretty okay at 'normal' life, I have a good job & own my apartment. Autumnal nights are usually spent playing games with friends, walking to pubs with my dog, and making up recipes with the things I find in the fridge. I love to be outdoors & active as much as home & cozy, although often this includes getting out of the country for better climates! I'm big on snowboarding, sailing, surfing, as much as sitting by the pool with a book. And my houseplants are all thriving which can only mean something good

For the NSFW bits: I'm looking for monogamy with a power & sexuality dynamic at its core. Whilst I'm masc in the streets, I'm strictly a well-behaved and obedient sub in the sheets who crumbles down to knees in front of confident women in power - and I enjoy that would shock so many that know me. I love praise over pain, and submit best to gentle / soft dommes who are looking to take ownership of everything in private. I have enough experience to know what I like, but not so much that I have tried everything and would be more than happy to push boundaries and try new things in the right space. If pushed for a list though, my dreams are to worship and be put to good use, give head on command, kept on collar or in bondage, edge, beg, and joi, play with toys for us both, v.new to pegging, and importantly aftercare.

I can verify myself with photos and recent tests etc, and would expect the same.

If you're interested to chat but don't know where to start, tell me about... A) your favourite subreddit B) the fantasy scene you've never got to try C) what a day of your dream holiday with a partner looks like