Hi! I’m 39F(NB) from Vancouver, BC. I’m interested in exploring this kind of dynamic with someone who really gets off on pleasuring their partner, enjoys taking a worshipful/devotional position, and being used or played with. I come alive under someone who gets turned on from seeing their partner enjoying themselves and likes to explore new ways to do this. I get very wet and loud when I’m turned on, so would prefer someone who sees this as a pro. I also enjoy seeing my partner horny and desperate and like hearing about what would make you feel this way.

I’m 5’2, short platinum hair, somewhere between fit/thick and curvy, dark makeup, with a cutish face and voice that belies my actual personality. I think I give sort of black cat or tsundere vibes - it takes me a while to warm up to people, but once I do I feel pretty strongly about them. I have a darkwear/techwear, rock chic, or athletic style and in the winter usually wear a lot of black and leather. I’m agender, so while I look hard femme, my personality leans more masc. I’m especially interested in meeting other queer people (nb, gnc, demi, trans, bi), though I’m open to allies who take a proactive stance to their allyship. If you have any ‘concerns’ about trans people in bathrooms or sports, please do not contact me. I’m attracted to more masc presenting people and like anything from muscle subs to pretty boys. I have an aversion to body/facial hair that isn’t kept quite short and messy/wet kissing.

This is what I look like.

I enjoy talking about art or going to art shows and watch a lot of video essays about art history and how video games, tv shows/movies, and anime are written. Some of my more recognizable favorites are: The Witcher, Skyrim, Diablo, Star Trek, Star Wars, Ghost in the Shell, Trigun, Cowboy Bebop, Chainsaw Man, One Punch Man, and anything Miyazaki. Although I love talking about well made and interesting art, my guilty pleasure is sexy art, manga, and fanfic, especially if it has queer or femdom themes. I also like talking about science and am particularly interested in archeology, anthropology, biology, biotech, and AI and follow a lot of science educators on Youtube. I have a pretty low threshold for talk about magic, spirituality, religion, and pseudoscience.

I have a BSc in Design and work from home, so my schedule is pretty flexible, but I can't host that often. I have a spouse, so I’m looking for a play partner rather than a romantic relationship. I’ve had a hysterectomy, so pregnancy isn’t a concern for me, but I value sexual safety regarding STIs and would prefer to have just one sexual partner. I’d like that person to be open and enthusiastic talking about sex, safety, kinks, and consent.

Kinks/sexual preferences:
Receiving - ass worship, pussy eating, fingering, teasing, anal, massage
Giving - praise, direction, teasing, edging, blowjobs, fingering, restraints, cuddling, biting/marking/hickies, nipple play, using toys, scritches
I’m interested in - you wearing a collar (so hot!), putting a gag on you, cbt, face sitting, you wearing a butt plug or fucking you with a dildo, electro stim, sounding
I’m open to - kissing, orgasm control, cock cages, ownership
I will not do - age play or mommy/daddy stuff, sissification/feminization, forced bi, me subbing, degrading language/slurs, pegging, denial, public play, JOI, tasks

My preference would be to get to know each other online, then meet in person to hangout. I like going to music shows, art events, drag performances, arcades, comedy shows, burlesque, queer, BDSM, and nerd events, and interesting new places to get a drink. If we’re into the same kinks and you just want to share your favorite art or manga, feel free to message me. 

If you’re interested in becoming play partners, please send me a Reddit chat and include a recent pic (face blurred is fine), age, description of yourself, what you like about the dynamic I’m interested in, your kinks, and what you’re looking for in a partner.