I’m a 36 yo dad who has a couple of years experience with this type of play and these kinks. I am a professional during the day, although many days I’m also a kinkster under my pants - plugged and locked, without anyone’s knowledge.

I’ve had some successful online relationships, and the best ones have come with kink served with friendship. I want to engage in kinky discussion and play and fantasy, but I also want to discuss my life as a person too. Don’t get me wrong I love the kink aspect and I am literally constantly horny. I just am looking for a friendly connection as well.

I’m primarily interested in denial, ruined orgasms, edging, forced orgasms, and anything that doesn’t involve me having control over my own orgasms. I love to submit and I love to be able to earn rewards, or to be punished as you see fit. My record for denial is just over 3 weeks. I’m currently participating in NNN and would love to have a partner to encourage me and edge me. Last time I came was on 10/30.

As part of denial, I love to be teased mercilessly through the torturous combination of chastity and daily plugging. When I’m in one of my horny feral moods, which is often, I constantly twitch in my cage and my plug deliciously quivers on my prostate. It’s especially intoxicating while I’m in a work meeting and a horny thought crosses my mind. I melt inside.

Lately, I have also been interested in the humiliation and mental aspect of femdom. I love serving a woman and I love being told that I am sexually inadequate. I haven’t explored this fully but I am open to ideas and suggestions outside of my regular locking and plugging.

As far as toys, I have quite the collection. Just ask - from plugs to dildos to nip clamps.

A few goals I have are to be to cum (or ruin an orgasm) hands-free, to cum hands-free from nipple stimulation, to record a sexual journal logging orgasms etc., to train to take bigger plugs for longer periods, and more. I am very open to any particular kink you might have.

Soft limits include some name calling, forced bi, and some bathroom play. Though I am open to a lot with a lot of discussion.

I am looking for an experienced woman, ideally a mom. You don’t have to be a mom but I love moms and mom bodies. I think all bodies are sexy though and as long as you’re confident, I’ll probably be attracted to you. I’m open to women of all relationship statuses as well.

I see this starting off as a lot of talk and discussion, moving onto working on some goals, lots of showing off, daily discussion, some edging, and see where we go from there. I want to please you and want to learn what turns you on. I hope I get that opportunity!