Hi. Sorry for the long post, but I'm an over-sharer. Thanks in advance for reading.

My name is Trevor, and I'm ready for my first (and hopefully one and only) female-led relationship. I want to play the support role in the relationship and take care of your needs from the background as you lead the way.

I worked in finance for most of my adult life which paid well but completely crushed my soul. I now work in public service which is far more fulfilling but barely pays the pills. It's crucial to me that I feel like I'm making a contribution to this world. I want to have a positive impact and being useful in life. I seek this fulfillment through volunteer work, being reliable and supportive in my relationships (romantic or otherwise), and generally trying to be a good person. It's important to me to be with someone who feels the same way.

I'm looking for woman who is a force for good in this world. I want to be with someone who has that same drive to do right and be a good person. I'm seeking a woman who has managed to merge her values with her career and her life in general. Personally, I've struggled with that. Finding the right job to get that fulfillment has been a lifelong struggle, and doing beach cleanups on the weekends just isn't quite enough. I've always been attracted to powerful, good-natured, leadership-oriented women. I've also always been a people-pleaser, and I've also always felt more comfortable when I'm following clear direct instructions (i'm a little on the spectrum). For a while now, I've felt that my calling is to be useful indirectly. I want to contribute to the world by supporting you in your efforts. I want to enable you to do all that you do in whatever ways I can. Being a homemaker for a woman I love and respect, being there to listen and support her when she's had a hard day at work, bringing her lunch at the office sometimes, supporting her in every way I can while she makes the world a better place through her work - that's my dream.

A bit about me personally, I'm definitely a golden retriever boyfriend. I'm a goofy goober who does dumb little dances in the aisles when they're playing a banger over the speakers at WalMart. I love staying active through sports, games, and local events. I'm very social, and, while I enjoy vegging out to YouTube and video games as much as the next guy, I'll always prefer to go out with friends and do something given the choice.

Obviously, physical attraction is a part of any relationship. For those interested, I'm White 5'10, 165, and pretty fit with brown hair. I go the gym a couple of times per week and stay active with sports. In terms of bedroom dynamics I'm not necessarily looking 100% extreme femdom all the time. I like making you happy, both in and out of the bedroom, and I do like getting headpats, kisses, and cuddles to let me know when I'm doing well. I go crazy when I kissed in my neck area. :3 I love (and am pretty good at) giving oral, but I love receiving it, too. I love giving massages, and I love receiving massages. I want to submit to you, but submission can look a lot of different ways. Let's talk more about what we both like. Communication is key!

I'm real, and I'm serious about this. So, please only message me if you're looking for a long term relationship and if you're at least close enough to Santa Barbara for us to visit regularly while we start out. When you message, please ask me anything that you want to know about me. I'm happy to answer. Please also tell me everything that you expect from me. (Again, I do great with clear, direct instructions. :D). If we're lucky, maybe, just maybe this will be a beautiful relationship that lasts the rest of our lives.

I hope this all makes sense. I've sort of been word-vomiting. Lol. I guess the TL;DR is "golden retriever boy seeking a good woman to love, honor, and obey. In sickness and in health, etc."