Hello there lovely dommes of Oregon!

I'm looking to break into the BDSM world. That's right I'm a newbie to BDSM, but have been kinky as long as I can remeber. So someone with experience being a domme is preferred, however not necessary. It's taken me time to realize this, but with my work, volunteering, and dad duties, I'm always the one responsible to make the decisions. I want to turn that part of my brain off every once and a while, and let someone else take the reigns.

A little bit about me: I'm 39, 5'9 225lbs (enough extra to be a nice pillow, dad bod but not a huge belly). In the middle of a weightloss journey. I've recently become sober from alcohol but don't mind if you partake. I do enjoy 420 regularly and fungi on occasion. Been know to dabble in other things, but only in festival situations which is less than once a year.

What I'm ultimately looking for: Working full time and being a 50/50 custody parent leaves my free time limited to E/O Tuesday and Wednesday night after 8pm, and E/O weekend (from Friday at 8 until Sunday at 8). I would like these timeframes to be available to you. I'd like to have a phone relationship with you during the off times, and would love someone who is interested in helping me become a better version of myself. I live in the Gorge and currently cannot host but that will be changing as of December. I'm willing to travel to the greater Portland area until then and after then hopefully we can split trips. Looking for someone no older than 8 years older than me. Younger is fine but obviously of legal age, and if much younger, then mature beyond your years. Height isn't generally important to me. As for weight, looking for someone who is somewhere between petite and little bit curvy. Race doesn't matter to me. I'm not looking for a forever domme, just someone to explore BDSM with and devote myself to. Not adverse to long term relationship, but it isn't my main priority.

Interests: My main passion in life outside of being a dad, is volunteering. Bonus points if you are also someone who enjoys volunteering. I also enjoy art, drawing, painting, kayaking, gardening, karaoke, EDM music, festivals, politics, learning and relaxing to a good movie/TV show.

Spicy interests: Pleasing others pleases me. Your yums will most likely become my yums if it pleases you. Very little is off the table. I love giving oral. Pegging is one of my favorites. Anything anal really, like prostate milking or massages, anal stretching. Would like to work my way up to being fisted. Light impact play. Interested in pussy and clit pumping. Love giving massages especially erotic ones. Let's talk kinks and see what clicks...

Hard Limits: Blood, scat, and vomit. Financial Domination. Heavy impact play. Forced Bi.

Soft limits: Feminization

Interested in exploring, but not sure about my feelings towards: chastity. Willing to try anything twice, once to see if I like it, and twice just to verify.

Into open, honest, direct communication. Into safe and safe play.

If I sound like I might be the submissive for you, please feel free to send me a message and picture and let's see it we click. I'll send a picture back promise. Hope you find what you are looking for.