Hey, I am a 24 year old woman from Bristol in the UK, who is looking for a long-term sub for a serious relationship.
It is essential that you live in Bristol, I would consider the surrounding areas (Gloucester, North Somerset), as I am not looking for a long-distance relationship. A few of my relationships in the past have been long distance, and they were very difficult to maintain. Also, I am strictly looking for an in person relationship, not online.
I am not looking to rush into intimacy. I would like this to begin as any other relationship would, by us going on dates and getting to know each other properly, before I would consider intimacy. For me, I think an established relationship and commitment to each other is necessary to begin with in case we don't work out.
A bit about me, I love music, reading, going on walks/hikes, and going for drinks or coffee. It would be lovely if I could find someone who also enjoys these activities.
Appearance wise, I am 5'6, a healthy weight (BMI 23 or 10.5st) but curvy (although I am currently losing more to get back to my old BMI of 18 or 8st). I am pretty and tend to get complimented often. Aside from that, I'm not going to go into too much detail for safety reasons on here. I would be more than happy to share a picture of myself once we have got the chance to talk a little more.
In terms of femdom. I myself am quite inexperienced, so please bare in mind that I may not live up to your expectations. It has been something I have fantasised about over the years, and that I would look to get better at, so it would take trial and error to figure out what we both enjoy. Please do not contact me if you are only looking for someone experienced, I want a dynamic where we can both explore and learn what we like over time. I am not looking for a one time or short-term thing.
As there is a lot I haven't tried before, or have minimal experience with, I am fairly open to trying new things. I am interested in exploring cbt, cei, pegging, bondage, chastity, facesitting etc. I am not interested in anything too extreme (we can discuss) or any sissy stuff. We can talk about other kinks and possibly explore those too.
About you (no expections):
-Aged 22-31
-Live in Bristol, or in the close surrounding areas.
-Be 5ft 10 or taller (do not lie about your height, if we meet and you are shorter than this, it won't go any further).
-Be a healthy weight. I am mostly attracted to men who have regular body types, please don't be too overweight/obese or be too muscly or stocky.
-Have a good stable job. You mustn't be self-employed. You need to earn a very good salary, or have the potential to. I would consider men who are currently studying either a degree that takes a long time e.g. medicine, dentistry etc. or a masters to get a good job at the end of it.
-Be intelligent. This is very important to me, I am very attracted to smart men, especially those who have an interest in topics such as history/politics. I really enjoy deep conversations, or listening to your thoughts about subjects such as philosophy or psychology etc.
-Good communication. This is so important for a healthy relationship, you must be able to pay attention to me and respond fairly quickly to my messages. I would love knowing I have your attention and for you to become obsessed with me. I value healthy communication where we can discuss and try to resolve any issues.
-Be clean shaven.
-Confident. You must be able to talk and hold a conversation. I myself can be quiet, so I need a man who in public can take control at times. I am looking for a dynamic where you are confident, and in a position of power. I enjoy a relationship in the traditional sense where you can look after me and provide for me. I do have a career and am intelligent, but I want to be looked after and treated like a princess. But in the bedroom you are my little submissive slut.
-You can be inexperienced or experienced as a sub, I really don't mind. However, if you are inexperienced, it needs to be something you are really sure you would like (you are like me and have fantasised about it a lot over the years!).
-In terms of race, I have only ever dated white men, so this is my preference. I am somewhat open to other races though, depending on other factors.
Responding to this ad: In your message to me please include your:
-Age
-Height
-Career
-Location
-A recent picture of yourself (within the last 6 months). Must be of your face and some of your body clothed. Nothing NSFW, otherwise you will be ignored or blocked.
PLEASE NOTE: Do not message me if you do not fit the above criteria. I am not interested. I would rather have a vanilla relationship than be with someone who doesn't meet my requirements.
I realise this post was incredibly long and wordy, but I am looking for someone very specific who can meet the criteria! I do appreciate if you took the time to read this fully. Look forward to hearing from you!! 🩷
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