Hello! I hope your day is going great so far.

I've been interested in the dominant female/submissive male dynamic for a number of years at this point and have had a few brief experiences online. Due to these experiences I’ve come to understand that I’m a true submissive. I hate being in charge in nearly every aspect and derive the greatest sense of pleasure knowing I’m serving someone. My interest in BDSM started from a somewhat jokey comment from one of my friends. I sent a picture of my behind to her and she responded that I need to be bent over, spanked and pegged immediately. It’s fair to say this made me weak just thinking about it and truly awoke something inside of me. Sadly I’ve never had the joy of playing out this dynamic in real life so some of the things that I’ve fantasized about maybe be in fact too much for me. Dreaming about a 6 inch strap-on is completely different from having one right in front of your face. Despite this I’ll do my best to remain completely honest throughout this post.

Appearance: I have just turned 25 years old. I’m 180 cms in height with long brown hair that I often have to tie up. I have eyes that are primarily blue but are starting to become more grey. I have quite a slim/athletic body type as I go to the gym frequently with wider shoulders than you might expect from looking at me. I typically just wear casually clothing due to my dislike of more formal clothes having gone through the UK education system all my life. I’m more than happy to share pictures of myself once we start talking if that’s what you’d like.

NSFW Interests: As I said before I have some experience being a sub so I have a decent understanding of what kinds of things I enjoy. I will list the main areas that I enjoy but this is by no means a definitive list of my kinks. If I don’t mention something here chances are I’ve never come across it but that doesn’t mean I am against exploring it.

Humiliation: This is a real kink of mine. Being made to feel lesser or inferior is something I immensely enjoy but it can be achieved in a variety of different ways.

Control: I have only just recently had experience of this but it truly helped to ingrain in me how much of a submissive I am. Having to seek permission to wear clothes or change them if they weren’t deemed satisfactory makes me understand my position more than many other methods.

Butt stuff: You might have clocked from my introduction that I adore the idea of my butt being used in nearly every way imaginable be that spanking, pegging or something I have no notion of. I believe that my best physical feature is my bottom so love to allow women to take full advantage of that feature.

Being tied up/pain: I don’t know how to properly explain this so I shall just give an example of what I’ve done previously. I have put clips onto my nipples and been asked to pull/ play with them.

There are many other things but we can discuss those later.

SFW Interests: I’m currently studying at university so don’t have the greatest amount of free time but I try to engage with my hobbies as much as possible. I enjoy lifting weights as many times a week as I can make myself. The sense of achievement and satisfaction you get after a workout is unmatched. Going to the gym this frequently also helps to build strong discipline which can be useful in different areas too ;). I sometimes play video games such as R6 siege or Elden Ring but don’t get the time to play them as much as I used to. Music is probably my favourite hobby. I can spend countless hours just laying down discovering new music of a wide array of genres.

What I’m looking for: I’m primarily searching for a woman relatively close to me as I would like move my experiences into real life at this point. Ideally we would get along well outside of the “kink” side but still maintain a strong understanding of our places in the dynamic maybe even progressing into a flr eventually. Whilst you having experience being the dominant person irl would be great I’m not against growing together with a newer domme; helping each other become a better sub and dom over time.

Thank you for reading all of this! I know it is a bit long and I might have gotten a little carried away whilst writing it but it’s better to be as detailed as possible so I don’t waste anybody’s time. If you have any interest I can’t wait to hear from you so message me on here and chances are I’ll reply quickly.