Yes, sadists need love too. To be clear I am seeking a long term, in-person dynamic, hopefully a life partner. D/s is intimate and a huge emotional investment for me, and I want a partner to share both my kinks and everyday life with. I am looking for a long term partner and I am interested in having a child or possibly two with the right person within the next 4 years. I am open to a non-monogamous relationship.

My dominance leans sadistic but always comes with affection and tenderness. Inflicting pain is a huge turn on and I need a sub with a decent pain tolerance and who is eager to please. While I can be a very mean Domme, I smile and laugh a lot both during play and IRL. I think I have a great sense of humor, am quite creative, and have a warm heart.

Here is what I look like https://imgur.com/9cgYHMT

About me:

• 36 years old, live in San Francisco Bay Area
• Short dark brown hair, often bleached
• 5’ 5”, athletic with killer curves
• Successful career (10 years) in healthcare, financially stable, college educated (Master’s degree)
• Hobbies include Muay Thai, walking my dog, watching anime, listening to audiobooks, enjoying time outdoors, going out to comedy/live music/restaurants, and snowboarding (I can rip and hope you can keep up ;))

Things I want in my sub:

• You are SUBMISSIVE, not a SWITCH. I do not like brats.
• Emotionally available, financially stable
• Age 26-40
• Resides in Northern California (or would consider relocating) and willing to meet sooner rather than later
• Fit, muscular, attractive, and well endowed. CBT is one of my favorite kinks and I love torturing a large cock. 
• >5’ 8”
• Good communication skills, able to articulate their limits
• Kind, intelligent, funny, shy/introverted/quiet
• Politically Left
• Must like dogs

My kinks include:

• Ruined orgasms
• Edging/orgasm denial
• Cock milking
• CBT
• Breathplay
• Sounding
• Chastity
• Deep throating 
• Pegging
• Slapping
• Biting
• Forced bi
• Bondage
• Humiliation/degradation

When messaging me, include an imgur link of you and the following: age, height, weight, general location, cock size, kinks, hard limits, and personal interests. 

Do not send unsolicited nudes or dick pics.

Cheers and have a lovely day :)