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29 [M4F] #Philadelphia - Looking for a Domme to train me to be her perfect sub/ slave
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philly4u is a male age 29 looking for a female in Philadelphia, PA
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Hi everyone. I'm a Philly area sub looking for a lovely Domme to train me and make me whatever she wants. I'm 29 years old, white, with brown wavy hair and brown eyes. I wear glasses and have a bit of a nerdy look. I've been called cute a bunch for what it's worth and look a bit younger for my age. If we get talking I'll certainly send a picture.

I'm looking for a Domme that wants a compliant sub to be exactly what she wants. I'd love to be completely owned, a slave for the right person. I'd feel right at home in a FLR. You could certainly allow my input on things, but I'd love to have no choice and give up my freedom (within sane limits of course). But if you'd want to tease me and use me, I'd want my body to be owned by you. If you want to tie me up and ignore me completely, I'd love to please you that way, no matter how gentle or harsh. I could be your footstool, locked in a cage, whatever you want to do to a sub you own. Something 24/7 would be a dream, but of course it takes time to build up trust.

I'm very submissive by nature especially my personality. I'm kind of shy, especially when I first meet someone and tend to get, but I quickly warm up as I know people better. I think that's why it's kind of hard to write a post like this and to put my thoughts and feelings into words. However, I'm really into all different flavors of sub-Domme relationships and would love to explore. Ultimately whatever you want will be all that matters.

For instance, I'd love to be loved and cared for as someone's valuable property. To slowly give up more and more control to someone who wants obedience, to train me and to improve me. I'd love for you to make me the best me I can be. And I'd love to serve and obey your commands to make that happen. I'd love to be played with as a toy, embarrassed, used, abused, but also cared for. I'd make your pleasure my prerogative and if I deserve it you will reciprocate.

However, you could be harsh if you wanted. If you wanted, you could spank me, whip me, treat me very harshly if I do anything less than your standards. Again, I want you to be happy and use me however you want.

In a relationship like this, I'd love to eventually build up a level of trust where I could confide everything in you. Where I can stop worrying about the world for a bit and give up control. I'd love to be commanded to do what you pleased (within reasonable and safe limits, of course), free from making decisions. I'd certainly return the favor as best as I could and try to be the best sub I could be.

As for particular kinks, I LOVE bondage the most. Nothing is better than that helpless feeling and having no real control. It takes a lot of trust, but is worth it. I love everything that goes with it like rope, chains, cuffs, gags, blindfolds, collars, leashes, etc. Orgasm control is another amazing thing and it doesn't take much to make me beg. I'm like putty in my Domme's hands. I've been told I make very expressive facial expressions and cute noises. I'm also really into things like spanking, tickling, and more gentle kind of pain, not extreme stuff. However, I like to be pushed to the limit and give you as much discretion as possible. I love sensual types of domination like teasing. Hard limits I suppose are extreme pain, permanent marks and damage, and findom.

I also really love the mental side of D/s. I've recently gotten into erotic hypnosis which is an awesome add on to any BDSM relationship. With hypnosis, the only limit is the imagination. I myself am a VERY suggestible subject and easily go under. There's so much fun stuff to do with hypno. You could tie me up with just a special word, or make me automatically obey your commands without even thinking. It really enhances these types of relationships. If you want a completely brainwashed obedient slave, you could certainly use it as a tool to train me.

Anyway, to I'm open to almost every kink at least once. I just really like pleasing my partner in any way that she wants that I can fulfill, so feel free to ask me about anything I mentioned.

If you'd like to get to know me better personally and through hobbies, I'm a big fan of reading pretty much anything and everything and I've been trying to get into classical literature more recently. Aside from literature, I always read the news and keep up with current events. I'm a big nerd when it comes to international relations, politics, history, and philosophy and love conversation in areas like that. I LOVE music and like indie, alternative, psychedelic rock, prog rock, and hip hop generally but not exclusively that. I'm also a fan of some sci-fi and really too many TV shows and movies to mention (but who isn't honestly). I love conversation and will talk to pretty much anyone about anything that's interesting. I go off on crazy tangents and end up on a completely different topic. I also end up debating people on anything or playing devil's advocate. I also love nature and the outdoors. I try to go camping or hiking when I can.

I think that's everything. If that sounds like something you're interested in, I hope you send a message. I can talk on here and on chat apps. Hope to hear from you soon!

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