Although I’m very excitable, I’m not willing to settle for just anything. I think I have a lot to offer for the right person, so I'm really hoping I can find them!

Alright, Let's get this out of the way first!

I am looking for a REAL connection with someone. Ideally a person who I can easily have great conversation with, spend time together, get to know each other, and see where it goes from there. I'm ideally looking for something IRL so if you're not interested in that I don't think we would be a good match. On top of that, although it’s okay and beneficial to have your own hobbies and interests, I think it's important that we have at least some things in common. One last thing, a text based communication absolutely will not do for me; It’s fine initially and in between, but please be interested/able to voice chat over something like Discord.

A little about me

I'm 27 years old, 6'0, 205, muscular build, Italian-American. I have a professional career and love my job, this is something that’s very important to me and should be for my ideal partner too. I have a passion for learning things and being open minded. Admittedly I'm somewhat of an introverted extrovert (an ambivert?); I like to go out and do some exploring/adventuring and take part in fun activities, yet I'm also a big fan of staying in. I'm a goal oriented person and communication is very important to me. I can often be described as laid back and relaxed although I do get anxious at times, and with the right person I can be a bit clingy. I am constantly working on myself to become a better person and I’ve been in therapy. Also, I think it's important to note that my love languages are Quality time and words of affirmation/physical touch!

The quick guide to things I'm interested in

• Video Games
• Gym
• Magic The Gathering (on/off)
• Soothing voices
• Learning
• TV shows/Movies
• Animals - I have a cat!
• Coffee/Tea
• Anything technology related
• Tinkering
• Open-mindedness
• Psychology
• Deep conversations
• Communication
• Space/Astronomy
• Finance/Investing

Video games have always been a main hobby of mine!

• MMOs - OSRS
• Survival - 7 Days to Die, Raft
• Build-craft style games - Minecraft, Satisfactory, Astroneer
• Anything Co-op

Things I am NOT looking for

• People who are just looking to get off
• Someone who's comfortable with ghosting/fakes
• Anyone looking for "pay".
• Complete lack of maturity - when it’s necessary
• Someone who has no direction in life and is perfectly happy with that.
• Someone who is overly attached to religion, I myself am somewhere between agnostic/atheist.

Here's an idea of what I'm looking for

Realistically I'm hoping to find someone who considers themselves to be a Femdom/Gentle Femdom. While my interests are all over the place, I really enjoy when someone is affectionate, caring, supportive and likes to spend quality time together. Also it should be noted that I do enjoy when someone is experienced, but I am more than happy to explore with someone who is new to this space; My only requirement for someone that is new, is that you actually have interest in exploring, and it's not just some passing thought! But yeah, I want to be taken care of and very much want to do the same for my partner! Because of this, I have a special interest in Mommy types, but that's not a deal breaker. Having a high emotional intelligence is pretty important to me as well, and admittedly I'm very attracted to intelligence in general (See my username). The age range that I'm searching for is mostly between 20-30 years old, with a preference for those closer to my age or older. This is not a hard limit, it's just what I found is usually best for me; I'm completely understanding that some people are more mature than others without even considering age, so if you feel like you fit my ideal person please do not hesitate to reach out with your intentions! Also attraction is important to me, and while I respect all types of people, I'm mainly interested in women who are feminine and enjoy taking care of themselves. Curves are loved and more than welcome! Please be at least willing to exchange a face picture with me if we plan to start talking.

Let's talk Kink

So I've been exploring the world of kink for quite some time, and submission always came natural to me. Admittedly while I consider myself to be a sub leaning switch (Very sub leaning) I think I would be very happy to consider my switch side something like a service top since I really enjoy pleasing my partner. Some kinks I'm very interested in: Mdlb, Petplay, Pegging, crossdressing, light bondage, body worship, facesitting, adult nursing/nipple play, roleplay, "training", handholding, aftercare etc. In terms of kinks, I'm very open to exploring and trying new things! I'm very much an experimentalist in that regard, and someone who is similar would be ideal. Of course it's almost impossible to find someone with exactly the same kinks, so I just want it to be known that I'm very respectful of limits and I think respect is something that's important in all regards, both in and out of the bedroom.

With the experience that I've had in the BDSM world, I was lucky enough to learn from people who were very respectful of the lifestyle. I have a very healthy understanding of BDSM and would love to talk about it. Above all else I believe that trust, safety, and communication are what makes a sturdy foundation that you can then begin to build on. This is what I want between me and my ideal person!

Limits: Blood, scat, needles, heavy CBT, causing serious harm/emotional distress.

Thank you!

Well, if you made it this far, thank you very much, you should really consider reaching out to me! While I'm ideally looking for people near me or within North America, I'm not closing off consideration from other parts of the world, so long as we'd be able to make it work! I also have a passport so, maybe a perfect excuse to put it to use (In the long-term future, of course). Again this is something that I'm hoping to form into an IRL relationship, but things take time. I do not use KiK or anything like that, so if we begin talking my main mode of contact would be Discord or something, I'm flexible. Also I know this post was probably a bit more serious than most, but please trust that I am not a stick in the mud! I love to be silly and playful!

I look forward to hearing from you!