Hello people!

Here I am! A subby switch that's looking for someone compatible to share cuddles and kinky fun with! I've been told by online friends that I behave very cutely sometimes 😳

About me

I'm a 31 year old guy living in the southwest of the Netherlands. 173 cm, 68 kg, a bit on the chubby side, but recently picked up running again to change that. I have light brown hair along with a red-ish beard if I decide to grow it out. My eyes have a Grey-ish colour and I wear glasses on a daily basis. Once we get to know eachother a little, I am happy to share pictures!

In my free time I love to travel and see different parts of the world. When I'm not doing that or working I'm usually chilling at home playing some games, watching YouTube, or out with friends doing stuff like walks, dinner or just chilling together. I finshed my masters 2 years ago and have been working in IT since. I speak both Dutch and English fluently!

Personality wise I always try to be open and honest with people. I might be a bit direct, but it always comes with the best intentions! I tend to be a bit shy at first, but can get incredibly talkative when I'm comfortable and/or in the right mood.

About kinky me

Kink-wise I'm a sub-leaning switch. I would say I'm about 75% submissive and 25% dominant, though from experience this can wildly vary depending on the partner. I'm a big fan of gentle domination, both as a sub and a dom. I absolutely adore giving and receiving praise! Beyond that subby me loves dressing up feminine, it just makes me feel sooo incredibly soft and cuuute! Other things I enjoy are bondage, mild teasing and denial, (harmless) mind games, hypnosis, latex/pvc, cuddling and the occasional playful humiliation (though nothing too rough).

While I'm mainly subby, I'll add some of my likes as a dom as well, in case I have piqued the interest of any switches! I'm quite gentle as a dom, mainly loving praise, teasing, making subs beg, pulling them deep into subspace and dressing them up!

Limits include the usual: blood, scat, gore, public, illegal. Along with anal and heavy pain.

I have some limited experience both as a dom and a sub. I've had three medium term online casual 'relationships', two as a sub and one as a switch. All of them were a little on- and off, but I like to think that they have helped me grow and accept who I am. They have also taught me some lessons about what is important to me and the importance of communication!

What I am looking for

I am open to both dommes or domme-leaning switches. Ideally this is something that could grow out into a long term relationship, although this is not at all required and I'm open to something more casual or closer to 'friends with benefits' as well. Regardless, it is important for me to take things slow and one step at a time. I would like us to start online. If there is a click and we both feel comfortable after a while, I think meeting up in real life would be great! Ideally you live in the Netherlands or the northern parts of Belgium, but I am also open to something more online focussed. In that case I would prefer you to be in a timezone close to Europe.

Not all of our kinks will have to align, but I hope to find someone that I am at least somewhat compatible with, beyond the basis of being a cute subby ofcourse. From there I would love to get to know you better as a friend and then work out some form of dynamic that works for the both of us, making sure we both have fun! Communication and trust will be very important for that! Time wise I do have a job and other obligations, so I won't be available for a 24/7 dynamic. But you can expect me to chat daily and dedicate at least one or two nights or afternoons a week to you, perhaps more if we gell really well!

Hopefully we can bring eachother much happiness!