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Hello, I'm a 26-year-old sub hoping to find a mommy (or gentle) domme to be friend with, and hopefully turning into a serious long term relationship.

Infos about me

This is a photo of me, body type wise, I'd say I'm slim and twink like. I've been told I have a really nice ass multiple times!

I'm more of a shy and quiet person at first, so it takes a little bit of time for me to be comfortable with someone, but once I'm kinda out of the shell, I can be a spontaneous and a fun person to be with. My love language for receiving are physical touch and words of affirmation, and giving are acts of service and physical touch (more on that later!).

I'm bilingual, I speak English and Mandarin.

I'm located in Southern California, it's okay if you're not in the same area if we really hit things off. I'm open to relocate for the right person.

Career wise, I'm currently looking for a job in STEM, but the job market isn't good right now, so it has been slow for me, but the upside is that I got more time to focus on myself!

Hobbies and interests

I like playing single player story rich video games such as rdr2, god of war and I also enjoy playing board games as well! I'm a really curious person and I enjoy learning, Wikipedia is probably one of the website I visit the most, and often spend a lot of time going down rabbit holes and so I have a lot of fun facts! I also enjoy reading, especially topics around political science, philosophy, or history.

Animes and movies are also big interests of mine. I love watching old hollywood movies, from 1930 ~ 1990 (e.g. Casablanca, 12 angry men, Psycho).

I enjoy talking about social issues, I'm fascinated by how every person has a slightly different take on the same thing, probably has a lot to do with your background, and that's really interesting to me. Personally I'm left leaning, but I'm still open for any kind of discussions!

I really enjoy singing, one of my childhood dream was to attend a singing contest, haha. I also do play a little bit of guitar.

I love trying different kinds of food from different countries, Japanese cuisine is my favorite. I do cook from time to time, and I enjoy it a lot!

References

Mom(biological): Wow! You're so smart!
Ex: Aw! You're so fucking cute!
Co-worker: What a good boy you are. (This had me blushing at work)
Previous boss: Are you still in bed? I'll have to say, this is quite impressive.

Kinks

I enjoy being the little one with my partner, I like to be the little spoon when cuddling, I like to be nurtured, and patted on the head, being called a good boy. In the bedroom, I wouldn't mind my partner being more strict or demanding with me.

Kinks that is a must is worshipping and pegging, I love being pegged or having my prostate stimulated. I have a few prostate massagers that I enjoy playing with, but I plan on getting more! And I LOVE to worship my partner, I like to make my partner feel special, and this is one of my favorite way! Other than that, some of the kinks I have but are not a must are orgasm control, joi, edging, begging, exhibitionism, teasing, humiliation, degradation, spanking, teasing, feet. I don't mind exploring the feminine side of me, so I'm open to feminization if that's what you're into. These are just some of the kinks I have on the top of my head. I'm pretty open to explore new kinks that you have.

What turns me on a lot is seeing you get turned on by me pushing my boundaries and doing stuff for your liking. Watching me doing handstands turn you on? Alright, watch how hard I get doing a handstand. Oh, inhale with my nose while exhaling through my mouth is a big turn on? Oh this is how I breathe from now on, no need to call the ambulance.

Aside from the physical part, I also enjoy the mental part of submission, I want to be able to trust you to a point where I want to give up the control to you. Just like any vanilla relationship, everything is built on top of trust, and that's what makes this fun!

I still enjoy PIV sex very much! And I hope you do as well.

I have had one online D/s relationship before, so it's not completely new to me, but also wouldn't consider myself really experienced. Good thing I'm really good at communicating about my feelings, or what I want.

Hard limits: Findom, forced-bi, cuckold, scat, blood, anything illegal or permanent.

What I offer

Like I said, my main love language is giving acts of service! It could be both sfw and nsfw.
I enjoy giving my partners massages, driving her to places she needs to be at, even simple stuff like bringing her water or getting out of my way to get her desserts she likes. I like to treat my partner really well! Cause being in a relationship to me is like having a teammate, us vs the whole world! Why wouldn't I want my teammate to be treated well? Although you're the domme, I still want to be the person that you could lean on when you're feeling down, and be there for you.

About you

I'm not looking for a person that's here to fix my life, I have my life together already. I'm looking for a companion that shares the same value with me. I'm looking for a teammate to explore the world with.

Appearance wise, I don't have much preference, as long as you're not overly skinny in an unhealthy way or obese.

Hopefully you're in your 20s to early 30s, and a person that's respectful! Yes, I like giving up control to dommes, but I also think respecting each other is important. We are both equal! I'm looking for a person who prefers being a mommy (or gentle) domme (but strict when needed) that values aftercare for the both of us.

Other qualities that I look for are creativity (I always try my best to spice things up with my partner), emotional intelligence, being communicative and being open minded with everything, not only the sexual stuff.

Here are some femdom and role reversal arts that I like. It gives a little insight of the dynamic that I'm looking for in a relationship.

I hope you're an educated person that likes to read and enjoys learning, and at least have your own opinions on most things, such as social problems. I hope we could have healthy debates on these kind of topics.

Lastly I'm looking for a person that's open to share what you think deep down. And be honest with yourself. A heart to heart connection is what I value most. I hope you're comfortable sharing your vulnerabilities to me, and me to you as well.

I know what I'm looking for is probably too specific, but I'm not in a hurry to find anyone. However, you're free to message me if you only match some of the requirements! Again, I'm open to a lot of things!

I hope you could put some effort into your message as I've poured my heart out for this ad. It would be really nice if you share a sfw picture of yourself, and what resonates with you the most in this ad!

Talk to you soon!