Hey there! To describe myself, I'm shy/awkward. I'm recently out of a 3 year relationship, and figured why not use this opportunity to explore something a little different? I'm 38, 6'1", 190lbs/average. People say that I look about 10 years younger than I am (I'm pretty average attractiveness wise, but definitely cute and youthful looking). I live in southeast Michigan, near Ann Arbor. I'm looking for a real life relationship, not an online connection.

I've only played a submissive role briefly as an experiment during more traditional relationships, so having a relationship with this dynamic from the start will be new territory for me.

I have a few traits that I think could make me a good sub.

- I love giving oral. I need to give oral. I have neuropathy that gives me reduced sensation in my genitals, but I have excellent sensation on my lips and tongue, so giving oral is the most pleasurable sexual act for me. Why not both of us take advantage of my health woes? I also like being randomly asked to give oral even outside of the times when it would be the obvious thing to do. I'm a little sad that giving road head to a woman would be impractical with the way cars are designed. Not ruling it out though!

- I'm insanely turned on by gentle humiliation. Not aggressive humiliation, just comments and actions that make me feel loved yet inferior. For instance, after giving you oral for an extended period of time, you could say that it's my turn to cum, but that ends up being done in a degrading way, like by walking me over to the bathroom and jacking me off into the toilet, and then saying goodbye to my sperm as you flush them down the toilet. Or making me cum on my own face. Or making me masturbate to gay porn.

- I'm a big cuddler and prefer little spoon positions.

I prefer someone who has a taller and bigger overall body size. I want to be able to fall asleep on your chest without feeling like I'm squashing you (granted, I myself like being squashed). I like confidence. I don't think I could be with an insecure dom. I'm shy myself, so you don't need to be super outgoing, just confident where you're not questioning your worth and know you're worth my oral worshipping (which I will also make obvious!)