I am an experienced and successful poly sub living in Brooklyn. I see my life as an adventure interspersed with hard work. Some of my fondest moments involve crashing an e-bike off a dirt road in Myanmar or skiing through the Alps. When home, I love to rock climb and can be found falling off a boulder problem a few times a week. At quieter moments, I like to read and play copious amounts of chess. I am passionate about food, whether it be cooking or seeking out fun restaurants.

You will find I am very laid back, intelligent, and even keeled.

I am relatively liberal politically and donate to left leaning causes like Planned Parenthood. I am hopeful that Kamala Harris is outperforming expectations because the early voting in swing states have skewed towards women. Sorry, tangent.

I am open to a host of relationship constructs and dynamics. The dream though is to ultimately build a relationship with a domme that is equitable at its core. One where we both deeply respect each other, listen to each other, and can talk about everything and anything. At the same time, I ultimately want to build a relationship that is also deeply imbalanced in her favor. One that is punctuated with service to her in and out of the bedroom.

I am not looking for a relationship that involves micromanagement or for you to make every decision. Frankly, I am an incredibly capable person. And, well, that sounds unfair from a mental burden perspective. What I want is to ultimately empower you, should we click, to make any decision you want to. A relationship where your needs are front and center and where what you says goes. But I also recognize that Rome is not built in a day.

In terms of kinks, I absolutely love things like pegging, tease and denial/orgasm control, humiliation play, and face sitting (not an exhaustive list of course). I am looking for a partner and not a magical kink dispenser and there is no must have kink.

I am tall and thin with brown hair flecked with more grey than I like to admit. I rather not post a picture on a public ad like this but will happily provide one in response to your first message.

I am poly but do not mistake that for not looking for something real. Please be aware, I do have other partners.