Hiya, I'm Yannik, 26, from Germany, and I'm looking to get to know somebody interested in developing a serious, kinky, and loving friend- and relationship. c:

The ability to be myself and therefore be submissive and vulnerable within a loving relationship is something that is incredibly precious, which I deeply desire. The incredible feeling of being able to be yourself and be appreciated for who you are and cherishing someone else in the same way elevates an emotional connection to a completely different level. Nothing beats looking into someone's eyes and realizing that you complete their desire. That's ultimately what I'm after.

Of course, for that, you need an emotional connection to begin with. I personally value honesty, fairness, openness, humor, and good food. I'm looking for someone to laugh, cry, cuddle, and share my life with. Somebody whom I can trust, share passions with, and create our own beautiful niche in a world that often leaves a lot to be desired.

 So if you are from Europe, after something serious/irl, roughly between 20 and 30, monogamous and do think that we could match after reading this waaaay too long post, do message me. It would make my day. c: Bonus points for a small introduction.

A little about me: 
26, from Germany,twinkish minimalist grunge/alternative look, long brown hair, short sidecut, skinny, and relatively fit. https://imgur.com/a/sVtYcDK

 Music is a big passion of mine; I play drums and won't leave the house without my headphones. Genre-wise, anything goes as long as I like the vibe; however, there is a certain propensity towards heavier music. (Semi-current top 30 in case you're interested: https://imgur.com/a/kQUrCEY). I do enjoy all kinds of gaming and nerd stuff, be it boardgames, videogames, or cardgames—preferably together with friends having a good laugh and just enjoying our time. I have a pretty substantial pile of shame when it comes to books and movies. I enjoy both, but getting around to it is a different story. The last book I finished reading is Sartre - Le sursis / The Reprieve. The last movies I watched were 20 Days in Mariupol and Ultrasound.

I'm keenly aware that 90% of those hobbies involve sitting around; I'm totally cool with doing stuff together that involves leaving the house haha, such as riding my longboard or just strolling through the city and getting some good food. c:

 I'm very talkative when I'm comfortable and enjoy talking about almost anything that comes to mind. If I can't contribute anything meaningful, I'll just make stupid jokes. Also possible are deadpan sarcasm replies or me starting to tell random stories that don't at all seem connected to bring across that I can relate to something you told me. (Might include stories I already told; my brain is very good at forgetting things.) Preferably, we can make stupid jokes and laugh a lot, but also have some more in-depth conversations c:

I tend to think a lot (some say too much) about various topics; among them are minimalism and non-conformity. I'm currently in the home stretch of my philosophy bachelor; I'm working part time, but nothing special

Kink-stuff

 Now before we get to the kinky part, I want to emphasize that for me, kinks aren't necessary requirements; I view them more as a list of things that can be enjoyed or explored together if we're both into it!

To me, a gentle femdom oriented relationship would be as fulfilling as someone who is equally intrigued by the more dirty parts of kink. Ultimately, what makes my brain go numb is mutual enjoyment and the feeling of somebody else being in control. c:

If I had to choose between strictness and gentle femdom, I'd choose gentle femdom any day. :) A versatile dynamic in which everything between light/casual/gentle domination and strict orders are options is a huge turn on. Also, I'm very obedient, so you don't get a lot of brattiness from me. c:

Very much into (occasional) orgasm control, desperation, and denial—giving up the right to cum quickly turns me into a horny mess that can't focus on anything except the desire to be used. (Hence, it needs the right occasion because it can get quite exhausting.) But its totally worth it. The mindstate of being under someone's control and getting reduced to their horny, easy to tease slut is exactly the right mindspace for me. c: (could try using a *comfortable* cage with the right person) This goes hand in hand with edging, getting edged, edging on command, or as part of sex—I love being desperate for someone else. c: (Grinding also qualifies, probably my favorite foreplay, the feeling of intensifying lust is marvelous.)

Oral fixation is the name of the game: I love (having) to use my mouth to worship feet, armpits, rimming or licking. Just grab me by my hair and show me where you want my mouth to be. Alternatively: I'm on my knees on command, taking sneakers off to kiss, lick, or smell feet puts me into sub-heaven instantly. Smell is optional, of course - but a big turn on in almost every regard, especially because the knowledge of this makes it way too easy to tease me. Unsuprisingly, this oral fixation also extends to spit. Being told to open my mouth just for someone to spit into it is so simple, yet it does all the right things for me. (I do also swallow and love playing with cum, cleaning up creampies, having to lick it from every possible body part, self-facials - yesss please )

Humiliation and degradation are two more buttons I'll willingly let you push. Partly just a way to approach other kinks (e.g. feet, smell), partly a way to verbally degrade me, call me all sorts of names, or even better, make me do all sorts of dirty and disgusting things. Playing with disgusting stuff is incredibly effective, for me, being horny overrides most feelings of disgust. If you're into someone getting incredibly turned on by what should be disgusting, there is plenty of fun to be had together. c: Unsuprisingly, all of that culminates in me being very much into piss. Depending on how you go about it, it pushes every possible button. Humiliating, degrading, disgusting, dirty, and objectifying.

Public play is also something I'd try out more with someone else; it's pretty exciting. :p

Limits:

(extreme) pain, 24/7 / TPE, permanent forced appearance change, cigarettes, vomit, needles, blood, sounding, ageplay, sleep control, micromanaging, food play, strong/constant discomfort,

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If you made it to the end of this and are still with me, you should probably consider hitting me up, just saying. c:

Kind Regards,

Yannik