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26 [F4M] #Poland LF Something serious and special #Europe #Anywhere
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gurdy_compassion1 is a female age 26 looking for a male in Poland
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What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone who wants a true femdom dynamic with a deep level of connection and mutual understanding. I'd like someone to spend quality time and build a close bond with.

Ideally I would like someone fit and muscular, as well as strong and successful in their career and "vanilla life" but a total simp and loser when it comes to me, where every interaction with me would automatically put him in subspace.

Most important things about me:

- Chastity is my biggest kink so you must be ready for a permanent lock if you want to apply.

- I am dominant only so don't DM me if you're a switch, you'll just give me the ick.

- I am pretty strict and demanding. Sometimes being in a dynamic with me isn't easy.

- Singles only! Age range: 28-38. Preferably experienced in real femdom.

- I'm open to a true FLR if I like you enough (0.0001% but that's actually what I'm most focused on finding right now).

 

Introduction

I'm a lifestyle Domme from Warsaw, Poland. I've been into femdom for about 6 years now and heavily into chastity for about 4. I'm currently doing a master's degree in media and I love academia – reading, writing, studying, the whole shebang. I'm very extraverted and I value good conversation, humor, honesty and open communication.

My favorite bdsm practices include: TPE, SPH, CBT, CFNM, impact play, ballbusting, trampling, emotional & physical sadism, breathplay, complete ownership, bullying, worship kink, electro play, bondage, degradation, human furniture, pet play, boot worship and aftercare cuddles :)

I like doing things on my terms only. I'm also very stubborn in this particular area (in other aspects of life I'm the opposite). Therefore, if you have your own, rigid idea of how your dream D/s should look like, and it doesn't perfectly align with mine, then you're better off finding a different domme.

Here's a little teaser of what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/4kyaVH2

 

What I value most:

- I'm looking for a male who knows his place – not interested in someone who needs to be put in or reminded of it, bratty subs are just boring and draining to me.

- My type of sub is docile and obedient. Someone supportive with a genuinely nice character who feels comfortable in subspace.

- I want someone generous with their time, attention and energy towards me.

- Chastity experience and a fitting cage ready are very important to me.

- I'm looking for someone 100% decided, dedicated and committed to the lifestyle as I am.

- Ages 28-38, with a stable career, stable mental health and generally a stable life.

- High level of competence, maturity, introspectiveness and the ability to handle oneself with grace are crucial.

- I really want someone sweet and kind hearted, with good intentions and a healthy attitude towards me and the dynamic.

- I prefer when subs take lots of initiative (texting first, planning activities, surprises and acts of service).

- I love playing and spending quality time in person so ideally I'd love an IRL based dynamic, however, my comfort and safety always come first so if you're not local to me – you're gonna have to make your way to Warsaw. I will not be accepting any travel offers of "flying me out" or anything weird along those lines (live-in offers will get you blocked).

 

 

🖤 》 More about me:

I enjoy reading interesting books, PC gaming, learning about psychology, anthropology, exploring ancient teachings and philosophies, flowers, long bubble baths, vintage jewelry and being a feminine Goddess. I'm also a very spiritual person, but not religious. I'm into LOA, meditation, breathwork, mindfulness and other stuff like that. I don't want to get too deep into it here but if it's something you're also interested in, definitely mention it if you decide to reach out to me! I also love anything sci-fi related!

❌ 》Dislikes (limits):

Bratty subs, sissification/ feminization, cei, joi, edging/ gooning & anything to do with male masturbation, body access (eg. face sitting, foot worship etc), toilet kinks, age regression, kink dispensery.

 * if things get more serious between us then masturbation and body access can be readdressed in the future, but they're definitely my hard limits in the beginning.

 

How to apply:

If you're interested in serving me, you'll need to be prepared for a permanent lock in a chastity cage. You should also have a fitting cage ready upon DMing me. Or at least be fully able to buy one after consulting me. I have a huge preference for metal chastity cages.

I only accept DMs over 200 words if you want to apply to be owned by me. You need to make a case for yourself; otherwise I will ignore you.

My preferred title is Goddess.

Please use the chat feature on reddit, they're much easier to read!

In your introduction you may tell me about yourself (age, location, details about yourself and your life), your goals, your past experiences, what you think about the things I mentioned in this post.

Please include pictures! (face and body)

Have a lovely day and good luck to those applying!

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