Hello reddit,

A year and a relationship since my last posting, I’m finding my desires for the relationship I crave even more inalienable.

For as long as I can remember having a sexuality, I have craved total ownership by someone I felt was truly special. I’m hoping, by some miracle, that You are reading this now. Hello :)

In my day to day life, I am confident, funny, social, outgoing, and constantly learning some new random skill or hobby. I love art of all sorts, I make music, exercise, go out dancing, travel, and am always down for new experiences.

I have found that many women naturally gravitate towards wanting me to dominate them. I do enjoy doing so, and I think I’m quite good at it. But if I’m being honest with myself what I enjoy most about it is seeing it please my partner. I get the vast majority of my sexual gratification from pleasing my partner, especially when I feel I can please her in a special way.

I want a partner who understands my need to please. Someone who can be greedy and use me freely but who is also respectful and appreciative of me as a person deep down.

Ideally, I would like to find my life partner, although I don’t have the highest hopes of finding her here. I want a mutually supportive monogamous relationship that is fairly egalitarian outside of our sex life (although I like the idea of my partner having SOME gentle dominance over my normal life). I find it gratifying to take care of my partner and let her constantly know how special she is even in the littlest ways. (Some examples: help you with your shoes, get you a glass of water when you’re all cozy in bed, cook for you, get up early to shovel your car.)

I want someone who really appreciates me, and similarly feels I’m special. I want mutual obsession. That way when you dominate me it means so much more because you truly value me. I want you to ego trip on how completely and utterly dedicated I am to making your life as pleasureful as possible.

I am extremely monogamous minded in my relationships. I like to solely dedicate my sexual energy to my partner—which includes not looking at porn or even thinking about any other woman and could include requiring permission to cum if that’s something that appeals to you.

Some of my kinks include: free use, oral worship, facesitting, sleep play, breeding, creampies, bondage, pegging, milking, teasing, denial, spit, watersports, MDlb, DDlg, joi, rewards and punishments, slapping, choking, pampering my partner… the list goes on. Odds are if you have a kink that gets you off I will be excited to learn how to perform it perfectly for you.

My only hard limits are scat, diapers, needles, cheating/cuckolding, permanent bodily-harm, and immoral stuff that should go without saying (underage, non-consenting participants, beastiality).

A few more quick little things: I am tall and slimfit, sporting a thick mustache, shaggy hair, and a medium amount of body hair.

I imagine I would best connect with someone older than 22 and younger than 44, although you can still message me if you fall outside that range (18 only).

Physical attraction is important, so I would like to trade pictures within the first few days of talking.

I would be cool if you like to switch occasionally, but I am just as comfortable with those who see themselves fully as Donmes.

I am willing to relocate for the right person.

There’s probably a lot more I could say but I’ve rambled long enough!

If I caught your interest, even if you don’t think you’re the perfect fit, you should reach out. I would love to talk :)