Hi everyone, how are u? I am new to this subreddit and I feel very happy to meet all of u beautiful souls. Lemme start by introducing myself a lil bit. I am a 26 y old girl living in Montreal, Canada. I am a petite asian, standing at about 5 feet 5 (u can say im the polar opposite of what comes to most vanilla people's mind when they think of a domme!). I am still studying. In my daily life, I would describe myself as shy, introverted and caring. My biggest passion is painting. I love painting portraits with acrylic, and I'm planning on taking some art classes this summer to get even better.

Ok enough with vanilla stuff, let's get into the nsfw part of things!

First of all, let me be honest and say that I am a complete newbie to the femdom lifestyle and i have very limited sexual experience too. As a matter of fact, I've never received penetrative sex, and I do not plan on receiving it for now and the nearest future. As a newbie, I am obviously still in the exploring stage of my sexuality. Still, so far, I've come up with a list of things that I like/dislike and want/refuse to try. I wish my future kink partner respects them and does not try to push me to do things that are off my limits.

About my definition for the terms dom(me)/sub and top/bottom :

I know that a lot of people, especially those who are into pegging like me, think that terms like dom(me) vs top and sub vs bottom are completely interchangeable, but for me, these are very different concepts. To me, to be a dom(me) means that u love to take control, to be served, to be submitted to, to receive pleasure... whereas being a top just means that u enjoy giving penetration. U can be a domme while being a total bottom, or a sub while being a total top. That being said, I wouldn't call myself a total domme. As a matter of fact, I am a sub-leaning switch (sorry I kinda lied about being a domme by posting in this subreddit... but bear with me please! xD). Even as a domme, I am more soft than cruel. I just enjoy giving pleasure very much. I get great satisfaction and pleasure knowing that my partner is enjoying himself. However, I am 100% top. I have no interest in receiving penetrative sex. This is a boundary that I wish would be respected.

List of kinks/fetishes that I have and would love to explore with my future kink partner (but not a deal breaker if my future partner does not want to try all of them) : - pegging, as I mentioned previously - spanking - bondage - pussy worshipping - role play

Things that I absolutely do not want to try : - receiving vaginal/anal sex; and I don't want to give oral sex the majority of the time - scat - water sports - vomit - diaper play - things that cause permanent damage both to me and my partner - anything illegal

About the type of partner that I would like to have : Since I am unexplained, I would love a n experienced partner who can guide me and help me explore more about this lifestyle. But then, its not sth that i require and newbie subs/bottoms are also welcomed to reach out to me. What matters more is that we have a good chemistry. I have no race and height restriction, but I do prefer people in my age range (but then again, it's not necessarily a deal breaker if the person is much older or younger than me, it all has to do with how well we get along with each other). I want my future kink partner to be respectful of my boundaries, as I will be respectful of his. Also, I would like us to spend more time chatting online before meeting up in real life. Neither do I want to be rushed into doing playful sessions together. I want to build a connection and have a certain level of trust first (rant : based on my past experience chatting with redditors and fetlifers, ive come to the conclusion that some people do not understand what the word respect means at all! Yes I am a domme/top, and u are a bottom/sub, but just because our kinks match does not mean that i want to dominate or peg u right here and now! I am a human being with emotions, I am not ur vibrator!).

So yeah that's pretty much it. If uve come this far, and find my proposal appealing, please DM me ! Thanks :3 ❤️