Hey all :) I'm a 28 year old living in San Francisco. I recently got out of a long-term relationship and I'm looking to explore my submissive side more, which is something I wasn't able to do much of with my last partner. I would ideally want a long-term relationship (if the chemistry and dynamic between us works), but I'm open to other arrangements too.

I definitely want a primarily in-person relationship. I find online/long-distance dynamic pretty tiring, so I'm only interested in those if there's a clear path towards us meeting.

About me

Like I mentioned above, I'm 28 and in San Francisco. I work in tech. Outside of work, I love reading, especially nonfiction, hiking, backpacking, and running. I love scifi and noir movies (along with many others), indie rock, and I write short stories which I'm working on publishing. Let's hit a concert together :)

Physically, I'm 6'0, ~155 lbs, and in good shape. I live a very active lifestyle with running, biking, hiking, and lifting.
Body pic: https://imgur.com/a/x71Vm2Z

Who I'm Looking For

Probably you, tbh! I'm open to ages between 22-40, but I have a general preference for someone around my age. All races welcome, and open to both cis and trans women. Physically, I just ask that you're in reasonably good shape.

More broadly, I'm looking for someone who has a life of their own that they want to share with me, who loves adventure, who biases towards saying "yes" to things, has their own opinions and preferences on the big and small questions, and is open to most new experiences. Some relationship experience would be ideal, as would a love of travel, reading, and concerts.

Kinks

I have a lot of kinks, which I've explored to varying degrees.

• I'm bisexual. I would love to explore that side of myself more with you! Forced bi, threesomes, all would be fun.
• Pegging / Anal play: I've done this once and it was a lot of fun. I love the submission and role reversal.
• Bondage and Impact play: I've never done this properly, but the idea of being spanked, flogged or restrained is very hot to me.
• Crossdressing / Feminization: Not super into these, but I'm open to trying. I think I enjoy the overall role reversal feeling more than the actual feminization aspect.
• Orgasm denial / chastity: Never tried, but they both sound very hot.
• I love verbal dommes. Nothing turns me on like you reminding me how much of a submissive slut I am ;)
• I also love subtle reminders of my submission, cuddling and affection, and aftercare.

Hard limits: The usual. Blood, scat, piss, any body modifications or anything illegal.

TL;DR

Submissive San Franciscan seeks a sensual domme to submit to. Send me a DM if some segment of this ad describes you or excites you :)