Hi there, I'm looking for new contacts more or less nearby (Germany, Netherlands or Belgium would be fine). In past relationships I was often the active/more dominant part in the bedroom. In my last relationship I started to develop a huge interest in being submissive. I'm looking for someone to explore this with.

About me: - 1,96m; 105kg - dad bod - go swimming or other sports at least two times a week but I do have a tummy - I actually am a dad - like both vanilla and kinky (i.e. bondage) - I want to explore a gentle version of femdom - I am self sufficient and have a stable life - I like to watch movies - I'm more a Irish Pub than a club type of person (same for music) - Interested in cars/watching races like F1 - some nerdy special interests

About you (please elaborate when contacting me): - have a healthy lifestyle - being able to have and interested in having long/deep conversations (i.e. politics, finance or what's important in life for you) - like to share interests like sports, special interests - be clear about what you can/want and what not - are interested in exploring or further developing as the dominant part in the bedroom

What's on the table: - ranging from "friends with benefits" to "soulmate/life partner" - being open about/discussing new perspectives on how ones lives can be entangled or not - in the bedroom: Switching is fine

What's not on the table: - polyamory - I do want to have a family at some point in time with one partner - just "benefits" without getting to know each other - I'm open to try out things but I wouldn't consider myself masochist. - anything related to findom - as I have responsibilities where I'm currently living, I'm not going to move (far away) in the foreseeable future

How I want to proceed: - short vetting process - feel free to write me a DM - sharing current images of each other - meeting up at a public place to get to know each other and to find out if there is a vibe