Very recently, I discovered that I am not as dominant as I once thought—in fact, I’m quite submissive. This has been a big revelation for me, and now I’m really eager to explore this side of myself with someone who understands it.
About me: I’m 31, male, with a slight dad bod build. I’ve been hitting the gym recently, trying to slim down a bit (some encouragement would definitely help me stay on track!). I’m covered in tattoos, and I’ve got brown hair along with a beard. I work for an animal rescue charity, which is something I’m super passionate about—I’m a big dog lover, too!
What I’m looking for: I’m seeking someone with more experience than me who can guide me through this new journey of self-discovery. I want to figure out what exactly it is about this kink that resonates with me so strongly. This could be a short-term or long-term dynamic—whatever feels natural.
Age and location: Age isn’t a big concern for me, and I’m based near Oxford, UK. But I think starting online would work really well until we see where things go. I’m not opposed to an online long distance thing if the connection is right.
I’m particularly drawn to people who have a nurturing side but can also be assertive when the moment calls for it. Body-wise, I’m not fussy, but I do tend to be attracted to brunettes and redheads. Strong, confident personalities are always what catch my attention.
Link to my kinklist: https://i.imgur.com/S0KjyuJ.png
Preferred d/s style: I feel like this hints more towards Mommy dom but really doesn’t have to be! Just gentle femdom really.
As mentioned, I really do not have much experience, so I’m hoping to find someone to guide me.
If this sounds like a bit of you, come take me under your wing and drop me a DM 😇
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