What is a sensual sadist, you ask? For me, it is the enjoyment of hearing groans of pain and groans of pleasure. Oftentimes, the pleasure is a reward for enduring the pain for me.

I am seeking not only a submissive, but a friend. Someone who seeks to know me as a person, not just using me as a kink dispenser. And, I offer the same in return.

Vanilla wise, I am interested in board games, crafting, good food, anime, TTRPGs, and sometimes reading fantasy novels.

Kink-wise, I am into orgasm control, sensation play (wax, electric, body painting, Biofreeze, etc.), moderate impact play, CBT, latex, anal play, and have interest in knife play and needle play. Limits are scat, vomit, being called Mommy, and humiliation/degradation. I prefer to encourage, not to tear down. Feminization for me is encouraging gender exploration (which I will do), not humiliation. It's not really a kink of mine, but I do enjoy dressing people up.

I am married, have a teenage child, and have a long-term sub. I am looking mostly for a local sub. Preferably, we would have daily communication with dates of some sort 1-2 times a week (virtual or in person).

About you: Preferably ages 25-50, no facial hair (if you have it, be willing to shave it), with similar kinks. Please don't be obese, but overweight is fine. If you're a brat, be cute about it, but I am not really interested in brat taming. ENM/poly is great, but I won't play with cheaters.

More about me: I am 5'4", have short hair that I dye bright colors, grey eyes, and weigh about 170 lbs (curvy, but working on it).

If it sounds like we might be a good match, send me a message telling me about your favorite food memory and a little about yourself. I will not respond to low-effort messages that don't include a food memory. After all, I am looking for an obedient sub, and this tells me if you can follow directions.