Hiya, thanks for checking me out!

Basically I've had a decent amount of instability in my life the past couple of years, but now that I'm finally graduated and working a new job for almost a year now, I'm feeling like things have settled down enough for me to actually want to explore some of these cute dorky feelings I've had bottling up inside me for a while now.

Since I'm still exploring myself, I don't have a real measurement about how submissive I am or how clearly I can define my boundaries around certain things, and I feel like that might just sound like extra work for a domme (oh yay now I have yet *another* grown man I need to babysit with his feelings, etc..) but genuinely I am quite an independent person, so I'm not expecting anyone to guide me like I'm a lost toddler, just looking for someone curious enough like me to explore all sorts of feelings we have about femdom and relationships in general.

To explain my title a bit more: I'm someone who really loves to just chat and find out more about someone. It's really fun to just talk about our lives, our interests and passions, and of course our more kinky sides as well. I'm also quite interested in voice calling people online. It can be pretty intimidating I know, but I think its quite enjoyable if its with the right person and its done at a steady pace, like all good things. I'm more than happy to send a sample of how I sound if you are the type of person who wants to know that before jumping into a call (I am sort of similar, it just kinda eases the tension a bit when you have an idea of what to expect), and I've been told before that I have a nice voice and a cute accent! (I'm South African which is basically a baby boy between England and Australia in terms of tones and pronunciation of things)

I'm not against sending pics, or video calling or anything, I just think these things need to be done in the right order. Talking and getting to know people first, then if we are comfortable with that we could voice call or share pics and things, but everything needs to 'feel' natural and not forced, otherwise talking to someone is more of a chore rather than a pleasurable fun thing like it really should be.

To give a brief overview of me and my likes:

I'm a gamer nerd techbro Cybersecurity full-on dork. I studied computer science in University. Anime is great, my gyming progress is going decently too, I have a decent group of pals and a super nice relationship with my family. The only real part of my life that feels a bit lacking is what I'm looking to fill by posting on here! But otherwise, I'm just a really content and relaxed person who is feeling high up on life right now. So if you want some positivity, someone to watch shows/play games with or just someone to talk to, then it might work out nicely.

Reach out to me on here if any of this seems interesting / tolerable to you, and maybe we could move to discord or some other app when you like!

Im still exploring myself but I think right now I'm looking for dynamic, assertive people who can hold conversation. People who enjoy the more romantic / gentle side of femdom, things that aren't too focused on pain or humiliation (public stuff mostly), and I'd be super curious to find people who have an oral fixation like me and think anything to do with mouths is incredibly intimate. Also, the crazy kinks I mentioned in my title are a real love of mine to explore too.

Feel free to dm to talk or just ask questions!

Discord: jamiesmol