Hi there!

This is a slightly specific ad aimed to someone who is interested in ponyplay as a kink.

I'm a submissive male who's been interested in ponyplay for a long time- I'm also a reasonably seasoned kinkster and have been in touch with the fetish and petplay communities for a while. I've been a pony at many irl kink events and a few pride parades.

Physically I'm 5'11", blonde, medium-short hair, average build, sliding slightly into athletic/slim. I have a desk job but workout 4-5 times a week.

Personality wise, people tend to describe me as quite laid back and a calming presence, friendly and respectful.

Ponyplay's been a big interest of mine since I saw photos and art of it being performed, and I love the way it looks and the power dynamic that comes with it. I love the gear that goes with it and have accrued a lot of my own.

I'm hoping to meet a lady between 23-42 who is interested in exploring the pony & trainer dynamic with someone in person. I live in the South U.K and can travel around the UK. Ideally we'd meet up for a drink or lunch and see if we have good chemistry before taking it further.

For those who aren't familiar with ponyplay- ponyplay is a type of bdsm roleplay which involves one participant dressing and acting (or being made to act) in a equine manner, often involving some kind of restraints.

I am not interested in all fours riding and primarily do ponyplay standing upright- I am looking for an arrangement that more emulates equestrian training that retains the elegance/power of trained horse movement. Think things like longing, cart riding, dressage, log hauling with a healthy dose of bdsm added to the mix. (Rebecca Wilcox's book 'The Human Pony' or the site 'Cpony.com' have great info on the kind of play I'm interested in)

I can be comfortable with a sexual or a nonsexual play relationship, depending on chemistry.

I'm looking for someone who prefers to dominate with assertive protocol, praise, teasing, enjoys creating predicaments/ pushing for obedience using a mixture of seduction, mischievousness and authority.

I'm not looking for someone who prefers sadism and/or degradation. I enjoy pain as part of power exchange or sensation play, but not for it's own sake. I also do not enjoy being called names or being belittled. However I do enjoy being manhandled and physically tugged around/ subjugated ♥

In terms of other kinks I'm a latex enthusiast, enjoy bondage of all forms, impact, other forms of petplay, facesitting, foot & boot worship, edging, e-stim, and a lot of other kinks besides, but I won't take up too much more space here, suffice to say there's plenty!

Outside of my kink life I live independently & work as an IT professional. I enjoy a couple of different niche sports- HEMA and Parkour and I also like swimming. I play games and am usually up for conversations on a few different popular culture touchstones- Red Dwarf, Star Wars, Doctor Who, and some more niche ones: His Dark Materials, The Adventure Zone, Helluva Boss.

I am polyamorous and have other relationships in my life including some other playmates and an enbyfriend. They are aware and consenting that I play with others.

Have a wonderful day, I hope that I might hear from you!

Diawl x