Hey there,

Thanks for deciding to check out this post.

I'm M from the Netherlands, 31 with a nice career, a place to call my own and in a happy open relationship. If that doesn't suit you, I understand and good luck in your own search! I decided against including more details about this, but feel free to ask.

I'm a big fan of visiting concerts and good music in general. Upcoming concerts include Die Antwoord and Opeth, the worst concert I've ever been to was Bob Dylan (although I love the music). What is the best concert you've ever been to? I also like city trips, having deep conversations and playing videogames.

Physically I'm Dutch, so pretty tall (1.93m), a bit overweight which I'm working on, brown hair and the rest is for later.

My interests in BDSM are very service oriented, although I have close to zero experience. I'd love to get to know a person and becoming friends, and then service that person in many ways. Going down on a woman is my favorite sexual act. I love the idea of making breakfast for someone, fetching things, doing research, massaging feet, you name it. Some thing that I also always wanted to try is being tied down and teased. Orgasm denial / control is also one of the major things I'd like to experience. I'm joining a gym next week so I'm also interested in incorporating accountability or some sort of motivation into a dynamic.

The Dominant person I'm looking for is friendly, smart, communicative and assertive. I don't like being the only one carrying the conversation. Looks don't really matter to me, although I might be attracted more to certain people than others. Attitude and personality is a much bigger factor.

Limits are the usual ones like scat, public, etc. But it's good to discuss that further in a chat. I'm alright with starting things online. I'm also good with just becoming friends and going for a beer or dinner, without any expectations at all. Friendships are valuable, right?

Make sure to answer the question and introduce yourself, since I don't know what to answer to just "Hi.".

Thanks for reading! And I hope to speak to you soon.