Good evening, Reddit. I'm a 23 y/o guy based in London, looking to meet someone who is also in London or at least the UK. I'm not looking for an online-only dynamic, sorry Americans :(

I'd like to meet someone who I get on with first and foremost - kink compatibility is important to me, but I'm absolutely willing to compromise if it means being with someone I can really connect with. Ideally this would be a long-term thing, but of course there's no pressure to commit from the very beginning, we can get to know each other and see how things go.

What am I like, then? I have a keen sense of adventure, and would love to meet a partner who will accompany me on indoor and outdoor adventures and bring me on some of their own. I'm easy-going and non-judgemental, although I care a lot about doing the "right" things in my personal life. My friends think I'm at least moderately funny but external opinions may vary. I have a pretty good career, though I'm wondering whether the desk-job lifestyle is really for me or if I should do something else - ideally something that keeps me on my feet, but that's still quite academic. I speak a few different languages, but I don't want to dox myself here, so you'll have to ask me.

Physically, I'm about 178cm, skinny but athletic build, with blond hair and blue eyes. Once we get to know each other a little, I'd be very happy to exchange photos.

In a relationship, I thrive on meeting expectations set for me by my partner. For the most part, that looks like service submission - I want to legitimately sacrifice myself for my partner's benefit - but I also benefit from an occasional firm hand and strictness. I won't post an exhaustive kink list here, then, because it depends so much on my partner's wishes and desires, but it's worth saying that I'm not into mummy stuff, scat, blood, etc, and anything involving a third (or fourth, or fifth) person is a probably soft limit for me - I might consider it in the right circumstances, but if it's a requirement for you, we're probably not a good match. I enjoy obeying commands both around the house and in the bedroom, and feeling like a prized toy in the possession of my partner, whom I worship and adore. It doesn't have to be super intense, though, I'd like to be able to exist as a normal couple as well.

I have a bit of experience in femdom relationships, but not loads: I know that this is a fulfilling and sustainable relationship structure for me, but not all the ins and outs of making it work day-to-day. If you'd like to figure it out with me (or you think you know already and are willing to share your secrets), we'd be a great match :)

Like I say, once we get to know each other a little, I'd be happy to exchange photos and, hopefully, meet up to see how we connect in person. If this sounds good to you, please just send me a Reddit chat/message introducing yourself and we can see if we get on!