Hi all! Hope you had a great weekend. :)

I'm looking - ideally - for my last first date. I know, it seems like a tall order to be looking for something as genuine as love on Reddit of all places, but stranger things have happened!

A bit about me - Down to earth but also confident. Intellectual and well-read. Artistic and spiritual, but you don't need to be. I am pretty opinionated and iconoclastic, but I laugh, smile, and crack jokes easily.

In the summer I'm at the beach or browsing farmers markets, in the winter I'm cozy in bed with 50 blankets, coffee, and a pile of books.

I'm drug-free and not a partier. Drug use and cigarette smoking are deal breakers (as are kids).

I'm looking for a true gentleman - someone who takes pleasure in some more old school styles of dating and will gladly open the door for me and help me in and out of the car.

I have two modes - Lululemon/sweatpants, and date mode, lol.

I am a massive foodie and I love comparing tasting notes over a good bottle of wine. I'd love for you to be my next reason to get dressed up. :)

You'll notice that there's like... no kink information in this post. That's intentional.

Obviously I'm posting here as a domme woman.

Key word: WOMAN. I'm a human being first and foremost.

And if we can't share a genuine connection as two people (in a non-sexual way) first... who genuinely get along, vibe, are attracted, and like each other's company... there's no reason to even get into the nitty gritty of kinks.

Obviously more than happy to discuss kink related details once an initial mutual interest is established. :)

I find sometimes people put the cart before the horse and jump to sexting, writing out porn scripts, etc, before seeing if we even get along as two human beings on Earth. I'm looking for a real relationship, not just something purely sexual (tho sex is important, for me it comes after a solid base has been established).