When I was a little kid, I got sent to my room whenever I misbehaved, now I hope I get sent to yours instead ;P

Hi nice to meet you! I'm a 26 year old from San Francisco and I'd love to date and get to know someone! I'm trying on here at least one more time before I go and put more real effort into the normal dating apps.

About me:

I'm an introvert, who loves to go out and socialize. I just need lots of time to recharge from all the socialization, and I'm looking for the person who I can hang out with and it still counts as recharging :). My biggest hobbies are reading martial arts and video games. I love finding new books, and discussing them with people. My most recent favorite has been the Red Rising Series. It's like the hunger games, but better, and less young adulty and love triangly. Martial arts is the best way I've found to get myself to exercise cause it's easiest when someone else is trying to attack me. I also like video games, board games, cooking/baking, exploring the city and hiking. Those are just the things that stuck, but I love learning new things and I'll try anything at least once!

If you live in the Bay Area too, I'm sure you can guess what I do already, but yes I am another guy working in tech. It's not super interesting, but the work life balance is great and I'm good at what I do so it's a nice career, even if 80% of the people here do the same thing.

Physically, I'm 5'11, 160 lbs and pretty fit. I'm happy to share a SFW picture after a few messages if we connect!

Ideal date(s):

• getting food and going swing dancing
• getting food and going on a hike
• looking through a bookstore and picking out one book that the other person has to read. Last time I tried this I ended up with the stupidest romance novel that I made fun of to the person who picked it out for like 3 weeks.

What I'm looking for:

I'd love to find someone near my age range, hopefully 22-32 ish and ideally in the bay area. Long Distance is ok to start, but I'm not looking for anything that would be long distance a super extended period of time. Looking for a monogamous relationship so please be single! Physically, I don't really have any deal breakers, I a big believer that while physical attraction is important, as long as there's a base level of attraction, an emotional connection is way more important and the physical attraction will follow that naturally.

Kink Wise I'd prefer to go into more detail in messages, but Orgasm Control and Bondage are the two main things that I've enjoyed in the past. I'm open to exploring and like I said earlier I'll try anything once. That being said, I do have a hard limit of anything illegal, permanent bodily harm, or scat stuff, and I would need to feel very comfortable before doing any real degradation stuff.

Please feel free to send a DM if you're interested or just want to chat! Hope you have a great day!