Nice to meet you, I'm Alyx (she/hers). I am a 29 year old trans woman who has been on HRT for 3 years and most everyone that meets me in surprised that I'm not AFAB. Feel free to creep some of my previous postings and judge for yourself.

I have been around kink for a decade or so and have been picking up a lot of experience along the way. I often identify as a lifestyle switch as I end up domming a lot of the people that I have engaged with in the past. However I am really looking for a dynamic where I can sub. While I enjoy engaging in sexual play, it is by no means the most important part of what I am looking for. I want a dynamic that exists outside of the "We are horny" times as well. This could manifest either through tasks, rituals, rules or other aspects of control ie, wardrobe control or exercise / diet.

I tend to be a bit of a brat. My major kink and one of the things that I love the most about dynamics is power struggle and the establishment / enforcement of roles. I love trying to "resist" or fight back only to be quickly and decisively shoved back onto my knees. I've experienced that both physically with people stronger than I and through other means (blackmail, hypnosis, bondage, shocks, etc).

I have experience with TPE dynamics and I would love to develop a dynamic in that direction. Other kinks that I enjoy include: psych play, bondage, chastity, hypnosis, fear play, impact, age play, blackmail (NOT exposure), exhibitionism, humiliation, wardrobe control, and others that I'm likely forgetting. My philosophy is that I will try most kinks at least twice ( a second time in case the shock of the first time was too much) before swearing off it. I would also be curious about trying out some protocol training as that isn't very common in my local scene sadly.

Communication: Communicating in a kink dynamic is really important to me and I would like to find a partner who appreciates and reciprocates that communication. I know that life happens and I'm not expecting 24/7 availability but something along the lines of "hey, I've got family in town the next few days so I won't be responsive much" instead of just unannounced radio silence.

Common potential deal breakers: I am trans, MtF, I have been on hormones for 3 years, I know I said this above but I want to make this painfully obvious. I am poly, yes my partner knows I am actively looking for another partner. I have a cat named Zelda.

Outside of kink I am a working professional with a 9-5 job. I enjoy hiking, cycling, skiing, archery, D&D, Larp and crafting. I tend to be a busy body and love to pick up new skills and hobbies. Ask me about my current hyperfixation and I will talk your ear off.

Easy convo openers: "Your cat sounds awesome!", "What projects are you working on?", "Have you ever painted daisies on a big red rubber ball?", "How was your weekend?", "*Horny sasquatch noises*"

Thank you for stopping by and reading this far. If you are interested please DM me, I won't bite.....until its been negotiated :) Although for the love of god, please don't message with "Hey"