Hi everyone! I'm James, 29 years old, very shy and naturally submissive, hoping to find a dominant woman for a long term, female led relationship, looking for in person only once we're comfortable enough. Please read everything before messaging! Thanks 😄

A bit about me: In general I am pretty shy and quiet but I open up a lot more once I feel comfortable with that person and I am very easy to get along with, just a bit quiet to start off, and I am naturally quite submissive and passive in general. I enjoy going to new places and I'm up for doing most things if it gets me out the house doing something with friends, I am a very laid back person so I really don't mind what I end up doing, happy to do most things. I enjoy going on random walks / drives and exploring new places but unfortunately I barely ever do that right now, I'm perfectly happy to just drive for hours to somewhere new for a day at a moments notice. I find it fun and relaxing! Lately I've been looking into camper vans or roof tents as I think travelling around with one of them with someone would be awesome :) I enjoy photography too and enjoy messing around with a camera on hikes. Also I have a slim, twink like body with a little body hair. Pics: https://imgur.com/a/yCGFf1Y

My hobbies: My main hobby is gaming (I play on PC and switch, currently I'm enjoying Dead by Daylight, Sea of Thieves, Valheim, DOOM, Satisfactory, WoW) so it would be great if you were also into gaming as it could be fun to play together! I occasionally play D&D with my friends too. I also love listening to music, especially EDM and rock. My favorites are Linkin Park, Pendulum, Illenium, Eminem, Hollywood Undead and loads more! I love acoustic covers of songs too. Another thing I enjoy is having movie nights, my preferred genres are generally horror and action films but I'm happy to watch most things as long as interesting. I don't really care much about ratings either, sometimes even bad films can still be fun to watch. I also tend to get quite excitable during movies if I am comfortable enough with the person. I'd love to make my own home cinema!

What I'm looking for: I am looking for someone to have a "normal" relationship with a woman who happens to be dominant and into femdom, and ideally shares kinks similar to my own, so basically a female led relationship. My type of woman would be someone who is generally a very kind, loving and caring person, but who also has a strict and sadistic side to them too. My age range would be roughly 21 - 28 and my preferred body type is slim / average.I am looking for something long term, and ideally to be in person ASAP so I'm only looking for people who live within the UK, as ideally I would want to move in together eventually if things were going well. I am also only looking for a monogamous relationship. Also, I am not looking to rush into anything kink related, I'd like to actually get to know you as a person first!! I probably won't even bring up kink related things until you do.

Kinks & my BDSM experience: I have a lot of experience online but unfortunately none in person. Online, I have served multiple Mistresses, two of them I have served for around 1.5 - 2 years each, and others for either one offs or a few months, so I have a lot of experience with tasks through photo's video's and webcam, and I have a LOT of my own toys and gear too. Some of them had rules I had to follow aswell, or face punishment. I have done a lot of self play too.I have went to one in person femdom event a few years ago, but it didn't go very well as I felt very uncomfortable and way too shy to do anything so I just kinda stood around on my own for a while and then left.Onto my kinks, I am into loads of different things and my kinks have grown a lot over time, as has my collection of toys which is now quite large! Some of my favorite kinks are listed below:

Heavy bondage, Facesitting / Smothering, Foot worship / Foot sniffing, Whipping / Caning, Chastity, Electro play, CBT, Sensory deprivation, Post orgasm torment and milking

This is not a full list as I'm interested or curious about so much more, generally into most things and if you wanted to try something new with me I'd probably be willing to try it (if its not a hard limit). My kinks are always evolving over time it seems too so something I'm not very into now I could be in the future.

Hard limits: Scat, Sounding (for now at least), Needle / knife play, Cuckolding (with males), Age play

Dealbreakers:

- Someone much older or younger than me (roughly 24-34)

- Someone who only wants something short term.

- Not willing to send a verification pic of themselves at some point (as in just a pic with your reddit username or a quick video call, I'll do the same too).

- Lives outside of the UK

- Is already in a relationship, or has a submissive already.

- Child free, as I don't want any kids.