Hello there! o/

I'm looking for someone who will care about me as a human being, enjoys acts of service, and/or loves the idea of having an eager pet/toy/sub/etc. to degrade, humiliate, and possibly even treat as less than a human being. (But still cares about me behind it all, see the first sentence ;>)

Individuals in the past have called me "sweet" and, dare I say it, I've even been called the c-word on occasion! (Shh, don't tell anyone! But the c-word is "cute"). As for my physical appearance, I'm happy to share pictures, but you can basically think of me as a skinny white guy. Short beard. I exercise and keep myself in average-decent shape, but I'm not jacked by any means. I'd be more than happy to start things off online, so long as the intention is for things to lead to being in-person. As such, I prefer those in MN or the Midwest area! Also, I'm someone who needs a connection past just the physical/kink. I'm also particularly introverted. Outside of kink, I'm a huge nerd, so video/board games, and anime are all things that I enjoy on a regular basis.

Ok. Hopefully with the word vomit below you'll get at least a little hint of my personality.....Onto the deets!

Helping and being of service to others is a big part of who I am. It’s part of my vocation, but it also naturally comes out in my kinks! I’m someone who loves to be of service/use, and will put forth great effort to ensure that my partner is happy, enjoying themselves, etc.! If you’re having fun, no matter what is happening (within reason), I’ll be having a great time! Control is wonderful, and power exchange can be a great avenue towards that. Having someone I trust, someone that I’m able to let go with and simply obey is fantastic. Developing that strong bond of trust so that I’m comfortable having terrible (wonderful :3) things done to me is part of why I find bdsm to be beautiful! Having someone that I can put focus and energy into pleasing, so that I’m rewarded with a bright smile (or perhaps smirk) is a true joy. I’m big into having reminders of what my place is, and physical representations can be great for that. Whether it be a collar, leash, body writing, or something more ritualistic such as specific actions, words, duties, etc.

I thrive off of: Clear communication, structure, control, clear boundaries, ownership, submission, guidance, and monogamy.

P.S. Intelligence is a huge turn on. Major points if you're witty, enjoy banter, and would enjoy keeping someone on their toes! (But by no means required, I love seeing how my uniqueness melds with yours!)

I like to think of myself as open minded, flexible, eager to learn, and happy to please! Think of me as a mutable blank slate. Dye me in your colors and make me your perfect pet?

Feel free to message me here or on:

Discord: _cuffs

Goodness. If you made it through this wall of text, bravo! I'd give you a cookie (or more...) if I could. Thanks for reading, and I hope you’ve been having a wonderful day whenever you read this!