Hello 👋 I’m gonna dive right in to the main parts.

Disclaimers:

• Happily married to hubby who is my Dom. He’s not a switch, hence my search. He is aware and fully supportive. He will be around so be ok with that. You would be MY sub, not ours.
• I am on the heavier side. Not quite BBW and am working on it so if you like walks and/or know of any good spots around here, that’s a plus!
• I am a pleasure Domme, sadist, but if a primal, and generally a soft Domme.
• My limits are race play, age play, scat, and animals. No shame to those who are into it, just not my thing. I am also NOT a “Mommy”.

Misc: - I am a proud nerd and bookworm. Recommendations for music, books, and movies are always appreciated! - I am a Potterhead. Do I think JK needs a reality check, yes. Am I a proud Ravenclaw, also yes. - I have tattoos and will be getting more soon. Love to trade ideas and pics! - I have a cat and absolutely adore swapping fur baby pics. - I am your typical millennial NYer. Meaning I am super sarcastic and generally hate people (but will also go to bat for you if you’re one of my people). If you’re unable to handle sarcasm/dark humor, probably won’t be a good fit. - I do also sometimes game. Maybe the 3 of us could co-op and get to know one another tbh at way :)

Preferences/Musts: - ABSOLUTE youngest I’m comfortable with is 21. Even that’s pushing it a bit so ideally at least 25. - You are willing to travel (and fairly often). - Sorry/no hate but cis-females please. - Must be DDF - Must be able to verify - Other app I’d like to move to is Dis.cord if things go well - Prefer you to be single - Strongly prefer you to not have kids

Any questions/concerns, please feel free to ask. I’m fairly up front (also not an asshole) and request the same in return. I promise I’m pretty easy to talk to, despite first impressions of this post. I’m just really sick and tired of BS people 🙃

Best of luck in your searches too!